hey.... basically, you know how it is when you begin a relationship you can't get enough of each other - in the bedroom ... And I understand it dies down But I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 22... She claims she doesn't want sex as much as me because she's older than me and been there and done it. This is always her response when I bring this topic up.. Which has only been a few times because I don't want to pester... We are having sex about once a week which for a couple is probably standard bit I want MOREEEEE ... I'm young with raging hormones ...of course I do! basiclaly.... any ideas of how I can approach this situation without pestering? I don't want to make her have sex with me when she doesn't want too.... But at the same time .... I'm feeling a bit let down! W
I have had this problem before (from the other side) - communication was the real key. She and I spent a great deal of time talking about everything. We agreed that we would compromise on frequency, but since I was the one with less interest she was going to need to step up and initiate.
I think 19 and 22 its not a big difference for that excuse. I think you guys need to try something different, fantasies, lingerie, just take that moment for fun and relax and take off that stress of the day.
_________________________________________________________ I am in the same boat right now and the frequency is about 2 to 3 times a month....BORING! I try to talk about it and she says that I am throwing it in her face or pestering her....NOW... I masturbate for sustenance. I am a scorpio/ libra, sex is a part of who I am and what i need in my relationships. In the past i use to cheap... a lot. I have not in the 2+ years i've been with this partner. Since you made this post, how have you dealt with this issue? Have you found better ways to communicate about it? If so share the wealth because my hands are tired!
Maybe you are still in a stage where you want to explore, maybe a long term relationship isn't the best idea for your raged hormones.
