What are young women looking for?

Okay, my caseworker told me that most young women aren't looking for a long term relationship? Well what are they looking for then? Honestly? I thought most girls were looking for a boyfriend? Are they just out for sex then? What then? I mean aren't they looking for a boyfriend and isn't a boyfriend by definition a long term relationship or at the very least practice for a long term relationship? I want to have fun too, I don't expect every person I date will be the one for me. Those things have to happen on their own. But sheez I really don't know what she means. What kind of relationships do young women want then?

 

Caseworker?

 

a short-term relationship. i mean logically thats what your "caseworker" meant.

What makes u think women want anything different than what u want? What are we to u, aliens? Some pple look for a long-term relationship, others just want to have flings, that has nothing to do with the gender.

 

Yeah. So she is telling me that girls mostly want flings? That is what she is saying? I am looking for an LTR mostly. What is a short term relationship? Is that what mostly young women are looking for?

Are women aliens to me? Gosh, why so defensive, just asking, geez. Be nice people, please.

 

Studies show that most younger women (women under 25) are looking for short term relationships, friends-with-benefits (if you consider that a relationship), or no relationships at all.

Men are usually the ones more interested in finding love and relationships, nowadays.

But don't be dismayed, most does not mean all. I am 22 and have been with my girl nearly 5 years. It was the first relationship for both of us, so we definitely weren't looking for flings =P

 

they seem to like getting beat up and cheated on.

 

I want ma ass smacked legs wide front back side to side pussy wet slip and slide

 

My grandma used to sing me that when I was a little kid..:love:

 

Awwwwww mine too

 

LTR / Commitment is I feel, on a more firmer basis when each other have lived in each other’s shoes for a period of time that can identify flaws, issues of incompatibility and; dare I say it, Love
Whilst young (in age, heart and soul) one should be free to express the physical and emotional feelings without an abandonment of spirit
Regardless of the sex of the individual, the best experiences are those which 'live for the moment' - there will come a time that is right to take the next step, though getting concerned with selecting a strategy one can focus too much on tomorrow and lose the today
"Love the one you're with" at the now, and at this moment in time, for time will take care of itself
- methinks

 

I reiderate this question. Who the hell is this 'caseworker?' What give her the authority to speak for all young women?

 

They want experiences. You are not, nor will you ever be, a woman's destination, but don't feel bad - there isn't a man, woman or child alive who is a woman's destination - they don't think in those terms. Men who think of life in terms of "destination" are destined to live unhappily. Women think in terms of "journey" (at least every woman that I've known). Yes, there are things on womens' to do list. If you're lucky, you might find yourself on one of their lists. But, for women, the destination is never in sight. If you want some measure of happiness in this life, I suggest you adopt that kind of thinking.

 

You're kidding. The destination in most women's sight is a hubbie, kids, a sizeable bank account on retirement and lots of travels around the world. I hate to speak for all women, but for many the "journey" thing burns up by their mid 20s.

 

I know far too many happily and eagerly divorced women with ferrel children for this to be universally true. Hubbie, kids, sizeable bank account and lots of travels around the world: all things to check off on the to-do list, including being a widow. I don't mean that cynically either. I'm just taking the long view.

 

Happiness is a destination too

 

Happiness, like all things, is transient.

 

"Studies show that most younger women (women under 25) are looking for short term relationships, friends-with-benefits (if you consider that a relationship), or no relationships at all."

Where are those studies? I think it might be true? UH! Me so sad. Why are girls such players? Why can't a girl love me?

Anyways everything you hear about girls is the opposite of the truth I think. Tonight I some chick started talking while I was waiting to go into some bar and I looked straight down blatantly into her cleavage and then thats when she started kissing me and calling me cute.

Where do I meet nice girls who don't randomly molest me and want long term relationships?

"I want ma ass smacked legs wide front back side to side pussy wet slip and slide "

See thats the problem a lot of girls want random sex but they wont let you do smack em good in the ass. Then they wander why guys want more serious relationships... lol.

 

"They want experiences. You are not, nor will you ever be, a woman's destination, but don't feel bad - there isn't a man, woman or child alive who is a woman's destination - they don't think in those terms. Men who think of life in terms of "destination" are destined to live unhappily. Women think in terms of "journey" (at least every woman that I've known). Yes, there are things on womens' to do list. If you're lucky, you might find yourself on one of their lists. But, for women, the destination is never in sight. If you want some measure of happiness in this life, I suggest you adopt that kind of thinking."
True that's the vibe I get from a lot of woman. I've never heard it flat out stated before.

 

"I reiderate this question. Who the hell is this 'caseworker?' What give her the authority to speak for all young women?"

My case worker helps coordinate things for me and takes care of my important stuff more me because I have a diagnosis of mental illness. She didn't speak for all young women she was just reminding me that when I go to the clubs a lot of women will have a different agenda than me.

 

That is the only truth you actually need young Padawan (Thats a Star Wars term in case you are not a nerd)

.........That and everything out of their mouths is the opposite of the truth.

Same applies to the guys, but you are a guy so you dont care.


But its a safe bet you are not going to find the future mother of your children half drunk, mascara running down her face, hanging off your shoulder in a nightclub