long story short, ran into a guy at the bar tonight who I had a crush on in high school he wouldn't come dance with me (the one time I asked him, he was watching his friends purses) and when I sat with him once more after that (didnt like the song enough to dance to, but the rest of my gals were up dancing), he said something like "so who do you know that would have my email" errrrrrrrg I don't care how much of a fuckin nerd you are, you are a goddamn PUSSY if you deflect that much, requesting that the woman hunt down your email addy AND initiate contact with you (and all I wanted to do was makeout with him, I don't actually wanna go on a date with him, haven't in years)
probably jsut wasn't interested enough to bother with pursuing me but, still... lame ass way of handling it
Another possibility is he's scared shitless round a pretty lady such as yourself. You could be a Nice guy n 'break' him in properly...
Maybe he is not into the whole 1 nite stand thing? Maybe he knows this about you and its just not his thing?
Making out and a one night stand are two entirely different things and I've NEVER had a one night stand thanks for the assumption though nor am I the kind of gal who makes out with people willynilly. I've kissed five men my whole freakin life.
Sorry what I said came out wrong to your ears. I was not meaning you wanted sex, I meant him doing anything at all and I did not mean to imply you were any type of girl more that perhaps he thought maybe you were. I dont know you so I could never assume anything about you. Maybe he is also feaked out by women who are a bit powerful in his eyes. By this I mean you asked him, maybe that freaks him out, or at last maybe he is just a flat out puss. Please again I never meant to imply anything about you, Im no so elequant with my words and sadly the meanings come out wrong.
Lawdy... something's wrong - I'm almost appearing to be the Thread's Infernal Optimist. When should the 911 call be placed?
All may still be Right w/the World - there's a sign of cognizance in one of the Play's cast. *g* EDIT: The obvious deleted... *L*
No, no reason. Those that can't understand sarcasum.... (See there you go, when you have to point it out....)
"I'm a player; I don't dance. What I gotta dance for? Sit back at the bar and pull 'em off the dance floor" You sound kind of bitter right now that you got rejected. I thought I remembered something about you saying you were into nerdy guys a bit? Maybe I'm wrong, who knows.
Maybe he didn't know how to dance and was afraid to make a fool out of himself, maybe he is getting over another relationship, maybe he's just awkward around women, or maybe there just wasn't any chemistry. No matter what, it doesn't matter because if he can't see what a sweet little dish you are, then he's not worth putting any more thought into! So on him!
