Two and a half month ago i met a very nice guy, he was cute and so on, we fell in love and he was my boyfriend. The boy before him treaded me mad and I was very fearfully that this boy will do this again. But he was nice and did a lot for me. A short time I was really lucky together with him, but then we had a lot of arguments and yesterday we split up. I'm not sad... Not really. A little bit maybe. There's something missing. But that's not the problem... More than a year before I met a boy in a forum and we wrote a lot. He is nine years older and lives far away... But he loves me and I? I don't know... I had a very bad time and he was always the only one listening to me. We never met and now he wants me to meet on friday. But I don't know if I should meet him and what i can do with my last boyfriend. On the one hand I love him but on the other hand there are many problems and I don't know what I want. When I tell you the truth: I don't know what I really want to ask you... Tell me what you think and maybe then I know some question... Thanks for reading (I'm sorry about my bad english... Hope you understand me)
Just be very careful, if you are metting someone you don't know, have never met in person, make sure its in a public place, don't give out your address, etc just because you never know these days. Its not really possible to fall in love with someone you have never met. What someone may seem like online, or on the phone, may actually be very different in person. So I am just saying go into it with an open mind, and don't be afraid to cut and run if it doesn't feel right.
Curiosity is getting the better of you. So go to a public place, like a mall. Bring your cell phone, call him, and ask him what he is wearing. Tell him you are running a little late, but get there early. Pick a spot where you can watch him in the refection of a store window, and check him out that way. If you don't like what you see, leave. Either this, or bring a friend who can watch from a close distance.
The first idea is wonderful! I like it very much! I think I'm going to do it this way... Maybe... Or I don't meet him...
