This is more for the guys (although ladies feel free to chime in): To the best of my knowledge I have never had a wet dream, and I guess kind of always wished I had. I'm in my late 30's so if it hasn't happened by now then it probably never will. I am curious though, any other guys out there who've never had a wet dream either? Sure I've had dreams where I was either getting a BJ or having sex, but invariably I always wake up prior to blasting off. It's as if once I become conscious of the fact that I'm having a dream like this I wake up before I can complete. Don't get me wrong it's not like I want to wake up in a pile of my own goo, but never having experienced one I guess I kind of feel cheated a bit. I've tried lucid dreaming, but again, same problem, once I become aware of what's going on and try to control things I'll soon wake up. Trying to go back to sleep and pick up where I left off has never worked either. Thoughts?
I too have never had one. I always have attributed it to the fact that I stated masturbating long before I was able to ejaculate
Unfortunately, I tend not to remember dreams at all unless I'm sick or otherwise have some sort of irregular sleep situation. In my teens, a few times I found my underwear crusty in the morning with dried semen, but unfortunately I don't remember anything from while I was asleep. Nothing since then really.
I never had a wet dream either. I believe it's because I discovered masturbation early and have practiced it daily ever since.
I think you should feel lucky rather than cheated. Still I think if you really want to have one, just stop masturbating or having sex for awhile...it will probably happen.
I've never had one either. I experienced lucid dreaming for years and could get off during sex dreams but it wouldn't actually happen irl, just in the dream. Avoiding normal ejaculation didn't cause it to happen either, because I witheld all ejaculations for more than 6 mmonths during a search of self discovery.
I VERY nearly did once. But I don't think it actually happened. It may have though I can't completely remember. AFAIK the chances of it are increased if you don't masturbate for a while.
I remember having wet dreams a few times while in my teens & waking up with soaked pyjamas. It didn't feel very comfortable & felt weird having wet pyjamas at that age.
If I'm in bed with a man that has had a wet dream, I'm licking it up and giving him head! (sorry, extra horny tonight)
Don't 'think' Wet Dreams are a regular thing for guys (unlike the daily 'wake-up' erection) I guess it depends on the Subconscious Visions of the Night (?)
When I have them it is after having a very livid dream, one that I clearly don't know I am dreaming and a beautiful woman is pleasuring me or vice versa.
So back when I was 16 I was a very very horny young man. I had a girl friend and we were very active sexually but when she wasn't around I took care of myself. Well I decided to go on wheat harvest for the summer and that meant either find someone else while on the road, take care of myself or do nothing at all. Long story short I took care of myself for the awhile since I was working from before daylight till after sun down there wasn't much of a chance to find anyone to fill in so to speak. I then decided to see how long I could go without any sexual contact at all. Well that was a few years ago and I don't remember how long I lasted but I woke up one morning in a panick becuase I realized that my under wear was full of cum, and I do mean full of cum. I jumped up and got into the shower before any of the others woke up. That was the only time I have ever had that happen. I guess I have always made sure not to deprive myself for such a long time since.
Damn Quiet Storm! You're bound to make someone very happy, whoever that lucky guy is... I know it's a piddly, but I just wish I had experienced waking up as I'm cumming to a dream or waking up just after still remembering it. Far as the mess part I don't care that much as I do sleep in boxers and can just use them to wipe things up, throw them in the hamper and hop in the shower. I've had some very erotic dreams before but again never seem to reach the finish line. Interesting thing I've read regarding wet dreams is that supposedly you can cum in them and it doesn't impact or impede you from getting hard and or cumming again after in the waking world. Wish I knew...
When I was 11 I started waking with wet sheets. I felt really embarrassed, convinced I had started wetting the bed. Fortunately, however, my Mother was a Children's Nurse & clearly recognised the indications of the onset of puberty & started leaving hand towels on my bedside cabinet. At first I was puzzled by this, not knowing what they were for, but when I learned about masturbation from a schoolmate a weeks or 2 later I soon realised what the towels were for, and from that point, once the fluid release became controlled, the 'bed wetting' ceased. As far as I can remember, I've only had one wet dream since then, and that was a few days after a particular internet chatroom g/f had been to stay for the weekend, and my mind was still flooded with the rich, erotic memories of how that weekend had been spent.
