well... really confused

First time here as you have probably understood by now.I 'm 20 years old,straight (at least I thought so) and still a virgin.I have tried to approach girls but had no luck at all.All of them kept saying that the think of me as an older brother,as someone they could talk to and relay on but not as a boyfriend.The last few months I 've been having some feelings for my best friend (guy friend).I 'm really confused.Is this normal?
He is straight and I don't know what to do.I don't want to risk our friendship but I wanna try out with a guy.Am I gay? I don't know.I masturbate a lot and the only way for me to come is to imagine that my best friend is fucking me.
I 'm getting rather desperate here.If you have any advice you are most welcome.Thanks for reading

 

Hi Baby , welcome to the forums !!

 

Firstly, there is a forum for this, so you may be better off posting this topic in there....

Secondly, there's nothing wrong with still being a virgin at age 20. I know many people who (believe it or not!) waited until they were married to have sex, and didn't lose their viriginity until they were older than you. So quit worrying about it.

Thirdly, figure out your sexuality. (Keep in mind there's nothing wrong with being bisexual, if that's what you are. You wouldn't be the only one!)

Lastly, Welcome to the forums! Have fun posting!

 

my advice is to not ask for advice......vice is its own reward

 

i didnt lose my virginity untill i was 24, and girls always said that to me too, lol. also i didnt really realize i was bi untill 25 or 26, i had an idea but was'nt sure, just give it some time, you will figure it out.

 

I didnt lose my virginty till I was 19. And I'm Bi. Its just something you know. I've many friends I have developed feeling for few of my friends over the years...It doesnt mean anything...
Your still trying to find yourself. We have all been there done that...
Just Relax...

 

Get Out and experment. Find out what you prefer. Then go from there

P.S. Welcome to the forums!

 

I think you probably are gay. Just read up about it on Google or something..It's what I did and I feel more sure of myself now. Good luck

 

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You say that when you masturbate "the only way for me to come is to imagine that my best friend is fucking me." That probably means your gay, or bi.

My advice is for you to look into yourself and not at the world around you. (This is something that GLBT folks do alot of when we're coming up.) Being gay or bi is great and I'm glad you're swinging for our team.

You don't have to title yourself (gay / bi) unless you want to. And you don't have to accept anybody's definition of gay or bi, including me. Ah, especially me (I can be kinda harsh at times.)

Oh, and on being a virgin, it's no big deal when you do it, we all were virgins at one time. And then we weren't.
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