well, i guess i was just told how it is

alloynm i have no idea why you think i would never take a suggestion from you.....

BSR HE has been clean since 1999. I can count the amount of times i've done it on two hands.

and possibly shadow but it would be nice to have support and not screaming when you are trying.

 

You and your husband need to sit down and have a talk. The louder you both yell the less you'll truly hear. Talk to your husband hear him. Listen to his concerns. Be there for him and maybe he'll be there for you to.

 

thing is
i was talking calmly on the phone and he started screaming at me. how do you talk calm to a screaming person?

 

are yoou thoroughly up to date on lucky and her husbands situation?
from what i know, which is tlucky's side and probabyl very little in retrospect, a sit-down is too late to work.

 

you don't, you bound and gag them.

 

no, they should just break up.
especially with TopNotch (I guess?) moving up there.

 

I don't think that TopNotch moving there would help the benzo problem any.

That's just my humble opinion though.

 

eh, whatever then. Good luck hun.

 

isn't his avatar two xanax bars?

 

i agree a sit down is probably WAYYYY too late that's why im 99 percent sure it is over.
I've tried n tried. Fuck it.

I agree that we should just move on.
and as for TNS moving up here.... he actually cares about my benzo addiction. He helps count how many i take so i dont take too many and i highly doubt he would allow myself to get more addicted cause he really does care about what happens to me.

 

haha

 

so what?
once i get OFF of the benzos if i wanna eat one every once in a while fine..... i just need to get off of them.
plus even if i decide not to eat any more benzos cause my addiction to them, i dont care if he does. just cause i dont wanna do something doesnt mean he cant.

 

i was just saying, in no negative way, girly.
and there isn't anything wrong with takin em recreationally after you have recovered.
and if he does, doesn't mean you will, mean he'll take the ones you might be tempted by

 

yeah once im over having to take them...whatever.


believe me, brian would not let me harm myself.

btw he can read pm's and threads but cant reply. been like that for days.

 

probably true... but that's a pretty dangerous attitude to have at this point...

 

and how the hell did some of you know it was topnotch anyways?]

btw topnotch is on the phone n he said to tell pavel he hasnt taken any benzos in like a month and a half.

 

it seemed kind of evident to me.

 

you need to read up on some old posts.
i cant remember which, but that is how.

 

you talk about it all the time on here...

you may not have said it explicitly, but it's not that hard to put 2 and 2 together...

 

Yeah, I'd agree.

It's never as simple as just taking "one or two".

TopNotch is probably the worst addition to this equation, even if he loves her more than pot. (impossible, by the way)