Well endowed guys get more adventurous sex?

Hey peeps! Just registered, and im getting right down to some meaty subject material...this will be the first of MANY questions for discussing that I, personally, have been mulling over for some time now.

In your opinion:
Do well endowed guys have a more "exciting" sex life then average guys? By that I mean things like MFF 3-sums, receiving more oral activity (then average?), etc?
Does a bigger package, in general, bring out a bit more of the "freak" that every girl has inside?
Yes, I know nothing is the same for everyone, and it will depend on the girl,
but on a generalized basis, what do you think? Not saying that average guys cant, or dont, have GREAT, amazing sex with their sig. others.
What I'm wanting opinions on is if a bigger package means (in your eyes) crazier sexcapades, bedroom adventures, and such?

I have a close friend who is a horse (i hear), and he has made some honest comments about how his GFs are addicted to orally pleasing him, opening up the bed to other girls...
He is a guy that "never" goes down on girls, even his GFs, is afraid of anything other then 'ramming-pussy-with-a-big-dick' sex. His GFs that I have known have all backed these facts up, which I have gleaned through overhearing/participating in frank/drunk/loud talks, amongst us friends.
Curiosity piqued, I started to glean info on this topic from other ppl I know, and alot of the girls I know. Nearly ALL of the "crazy" sex stories I hear about, from my female friends, involve being with a well-endowed guy. And its not like a bragging thing, its almost always a side note that I pick up on.


This is not a penis-length insecurity discussion, although it will be interesting to see what answers come up.
I am a bit of a freethinker, and love psychology...

 

pun intended?


i wouldn't think it makes a huge difference. quite a bit of the time, a girl knows if she is going to have sex with or blow a guy before she ever sees the penis. also, large penis may scare people away from anal.

on the other hand, big guys may be more confident. and if a girl has a well-endowed boyfriend she may want to do a threesome just to show him off. and once in a relationship, a big dick might encourage certain girls to put it in their mouth.

i don't know.

 

the search button is obviously a subject that you haven't been mulling over

 

No it was not...my bad!! Seems all forums have this 'problem' with newly registered people...LOL.

 

pun intended haha!

But yea, seems there is something of note with all of this though.

Yes, girls size a man up upon seeing him, but, I'm talking about a girl working harder to please/excite/spice things up with a boyfriend/fuckbuddy whos hung like a horse; compared to how she would make efforts for an average sized guy.

Im not saying she LOVES or CARES for either guy more, im wondering if there is a subconcious mindset that may be responsible for what we are discussing.


Is this a true phenomenon?

 

In all honesty, being 'hung like a horse' is a huge turn off for me. The person that I'm currently in love with (whom I dated long enough before seeing his dick to say that I feel in love with before I saw it, because I have sexual prerequisites) is quite well endowed (but I would go as far as to say is horse-like) and honestly it hurt for me and some positions were extremely unenjoyable and even quite painful. So no thank you in the least bit

 

I'm an ok size. I wouldn't say it has gotten me any more adventures! It's not like I walk up on a situation and whip it out! LOL. The only thing is that when it comes down to the "let's get naked" part, is that sometimes I get some compliments....I'm not HUGE though, so maybe you need to hear from a 12 incher! LOL.

 

Well I think only females who have had both ends of the "spectrum" are really qualified to answer, now that I think about it... I mean unless you, as a man, have experienced owning a 5 inch cock one year and an 8 or 9 incher the next, you don't really have anything to compare experiences with, you know?
Still its good to hear your end of this...any other males; please comment...

 

Don't get me wrong, the big ones are a thrill and give more toy to play with, but I really think it comes down to the guy the cock is attached to. I have had the full array and personality and skill make the real difference. I would be more inspired to give a mind blowing experience *lol* to a guy with a 6 incher who had just tongue lashed me to a quivering heap than a 12 incher who's only effort was a whip it out and thrust.

Let's face it, if a big dick is the only thing that makes a guy confident then he is missing more than he is endowed with. The ones who get it freaky (well, freakier than normal) with me are the ones who give me a reason to get kinky with them, their package is just the tool they work with once the fun begins.

 

on the psycology side of this topic, we tend to think of big dicks as something dirty and kinky, and a lot of guys also think most women are freaks if you can just break it out of them. both rely on too much generalizations. I would say there are probably women that believe a well hung guy will be less sexually conservative and might feel more comfortable expressing freakier things to the guy, but you could offend a woman if you assume everyone is going to be like that.

I have a friend who can't fit his dick through a roll of paper towels, and has gotten that dirty freaky side out of a good amount of women. He has hooked up with some of the girls other guys in the group have, one of those girls they both dated long term, and his stories with those girls are a lot different from the other guys. She was very submissive with the big dick friend and wanted to always be dominated. He didn't have to do much foreplay too, she just had to get him him hard and talk dirty about it and she would get wet enough.

Recently he was dating someone new who he upset real bad b/c he brought too much of his past with him and tried talking to her and showing off to her the way that has worked for him in the past. So be careful with any assumptions, b/c it's not this secret that every woman keeps from most men, b/c most men don't fall into that category, it really is just a random preference that some have. The same way not every woman likes to be touched, handled, or humped the same way, and you have to forget what you know to relearn for a new person, not every woman likes to be talked to, treated, or hear the same things.

 

very interesting....

 

AH-HAH!!!! :bulb:

 

Surely it's a case of cause & effect. Without having the sexual activity in the first place, the true size of the penis wouldn't be known, which would tend to infer that the size has nothing to do with it.

Without meaning to brag, I consider myself rather well endowed, with an average 6½" length, and a slightly over average 6½" girth. As it's the girth that tends to give the imperssion of additional size, I find this can sometimes be detrimental both with Straight & Gay sex. I have had problems with women who find it painful to accommodate such a girth, and Anal sex is, of course, usually nigh on impossible in most circumstances.

However, I have never found the size of my penis to be an issue in getting down with a partner, rather than the partner being of the attitude that the option to participate in no strings attached sexual relationships is the right of everyone, regardless of gender, with no concept of embarassment in making the initial approach.

 

It seems we need a double-blind study on this then. Because getting consentual sex and then having it be good or bad involves too many factors, as Pine has pointed out.

 

Hard to compare experiences as men only have one penis...

..but, I can tell you having a above average penis and it being on the thick side that women DO enjoy it more, or at least tell me they do(again I only have one dick to sample with), when vaginal sex is involved. I think being circumcised and being thick the friction is more for them on the G spot and clitoris region.

I think they are likely to get more turned on if there is a bit of domination going on where the dick is just big enough that it's almost overwhelming for them but they can handle it without "too much pain". My girl calls this "the perfect combination of pleasure and pain" when we're having sex. Now all women have different sized vaginas though and it doesn't match up to petite = petite or tall/large girl = tall/big vagina - definitely not the case in my experience.... so in my opinion I would say the ideal dick for any given lady is the one that is like 105 to 110% of optimal for their vagina.

Also having a above average (not huge) dick has caused me to not have anal sex a lot because of pain for the woman. Also no woman has been able to deep throat me and I suspect this is also the reason.

OP you sound like you are bisexual or possibly gay the way you talk about cocks - no offense intended.

So I mean... there's up sides and down sides.