weird question for the girls...

have you ever told one of your guy-friends that you love them?

 

wait for the storm.....

anyway, did that happen to you??

 

i know this thread will probably not end well...

yeah it's been going on for awhile... long story short i'm in that akward stage with a very close friend...

when in doubt, ask a bunch of stoners!

 

like friend love or lets make a baby love?

 

^^ what i'm trying to figure out.

 

mabye make out with her and she will be satisfied. Well not really , theres the 89% chance she will take that
as "where going out"

ignore that^ dont take advice from me, take it from teh chickehz, they know what there talkin bout

 

no

what'd she say? or what's your situation

edit: what kinda love are you talking about?

 

why not just talk to her about it if youre that close

ive had friends that were girls tell me that they loved me but it was never in like a relationship kind of way

 

i'm trying to figure that out.

we've been close for awhile now, but recently a lot of stuff has been going on with us and i'm confused.


i don't know how to describe the situation because it's just a lot of little things. she tells me she loves often, and that i mean a lot to her. I'd love to go out with her, but i'm trying to figure this out...



EDIT:
wonka, i just can't... like... i just, can't. we're like THISCLOSE but i would just imagine that conversation being really weird.

 

in that case i'd say straight up to her that you don't know what she means by it and you wanna be on the same page. she should be cool about it

 

thanks.
i think i know the general direction to take now.

i hope this turns out well

 

maybe just start trying to get to relationship closer and just see how things turn out without actually asking her out or anything lol

or just ask her out lol

or listen to dazed...id trust a girl over me...

 

Three times. It wasn't love, but whatever that thing teenagers do.
the first two worked great until I moved both times. Long distance doesn't work.

It was the third that sucked.It was my friend since fifth grade. We were awesome together....And in eighth grade, I finally let it be known how I felt. It was mutual at first, but only for a few days. After then, he stopped talking to me and wouldn't even look at me. That went on for two more years. I would wave at him, and we would stare and walk away. Ugh. After ninth grade, I moved yet again, and the misery is over. Now I am going into tenth grade, and haven't been attracted to anyone else since.

So, it completely ruined out friendship and had me down in the dumps for a while, thinking I was a freak or something.

If you don't like that girl, be kind enough to tell her.
Ruins friendships, man.

 

we just made plans to go see District 9 on friday, and walk around the mall.

sweet.

 

I must add,
besides Clint Eastwood.
He will always have my love.

 

no, i want to be with her.

 

Aw. That is great. From experience, whenever I told a guy that I had feelings for him (a long term friend) and it was mutual, it was the greatest feeling in the world. I am happy for that girl, if you figure out whatever it is that she wants.

 

Talk to her about it, for sure. I say I love my guy-friends all the time, but I don't mean it in the lovey dovey kinda way... so I dunno what she might mean by it.

But be careful if you do start a relationship! It'll be hard if yins break up and it might ruin the friendship

 

This. I dated my best friend and when we broke up, it took almost two years for us to become friends again, and like, five to become best friends again.

 

i was real good friends with my ex before i started dating her...we dont really talk anymore but i stay on good terms with her because im good friends with her brother