last night I had a weird dream. I dont remember how it started, but there was this hot chick making out with a guy. later on, she starts on me, and makes me find this necklace for her, which she agreed to have sex with me in return for. after this it gets freaky. apparantly, shes a vampire, and the necklace is the only thing that can kill her (dont ask me its a damn dream lol), and I think I said something like "we still gonna do it?" and she said "yeah if you dont mind a few nips and bites" so she transforms into a full on vampire, fangs and all, and I just did it. I had to like hold her head so I didnt get bit too much, but it didnt matter, I was still getting bit to some extent(and it hurt! fangs + biting = no fun.). and I just kept on going, biting and all, til I was done... now what makes this dream even more fucked up is that I'm a virgin, and I've never even had any sort of relationship, so I dunno how my mind came up with this kinky shit. Honestly, I think it represents sexual frustration, confusion, desire for sex/love, and the need/want for a partner. The fact that she is a vampire and biting me shows desperation in that I would take it no matter what the personal cost/pain it causes myself, and the fact that I took her from another guy means I dont caer how it hurts anyone else either this would make sense, as I've been dying to get a gf, but women are never attracted to me for some reason... any ideas/interpretations of your own???
Sex (or kissing, marriage etc) is often symbolic of the integration process: of the need to unite with an aspect of yourself or with a quality which has been missing from your life until now.
well considering the vampiress' qualities, perhaps what I need is to reunite with my more aggressive and lustful qualities, as well as my natural instincts as opposed to pure logic. I also probably have to unite with a sexual side (or sexual being) of myself too. All those qualities were portrayed by her, as well as accepted by me. hopefully the dream means I can (or even have begun to) change to gain these qualities, or others (should I be missing them). not having those is something I've viewed as a problem and been trying to fix for awhile. And before I end the post... what exactly about the vampiress? could the vampire mean that I'm afraid of my own feelings, and be combined with the sex to mean I'm afraid of my sexual feelings, yet I need to combine with them in order to gain the things I need/want?
hmm im seeing this in diff perspective now. A vampire is a 'dream character' (Character that appears in our dreams, like shadows, person we havent met in our lives before, etc.). Now, a female dream character represents your inner female, your Yin (inner self, emotions, intuition, what's 'within') Perhaps your emotions want to connect with you. Focus on your inner self growth (emotionally & spiritually), rather than the physical. Aggressive? Perhaps, but aggressive as in a confident way. Too much aggressiveness could be a major turn-off. Being shy is kinda cute sometimes. But girls usually go for boys who are confident, those who can carry themselves well. You mentioned 'lustful', but do you think, it is really necessary for personal growth?? Most of the time, when we feel fear towards our 'dream character', it means, something in your waking life is hard fo you to face up. A necklace cud be a symbol, but how do u define necklace? Perhaps, a necklace is something we wear to make us look attractive,cud somehow give someone confidence ryt? could also mean commitment, i guess. You said u havent had a gf eversince. I think this dream wants to tell you something. Hope this cud help u. : )
Hey, you sound like a very confused/confusing person, everything thats been said is valid and has its point but have you considered masturbation?
^^ haha considered? I do it wayy too much as it is haha. any sexual problems I have come from complete and total lack of a sex life. When I say complete and total I mean I've never even held hands with a girl before, so I'm pretty fucked up in the sexual arena because of that... I'm still only 17 tho, so hopefully people's "your still young" comments end up being true... anyway, this was just the strangest dream in awhile, and I thought it was weird... honestly I just think its a sign that I need to actually spend some damn time with women. I wish I could but its not really my choice, I try to all the time. for some people confidence is a problem, for me, I just get rejected no matter how I feel, act, dress, smell, or anything else I have control over.
