Watching your partner having sex with others.

Have you had the opportuity to watch your partner have sex with others, male or female? Was it exciting to see how they enjoyed things with somebody else?

 

Yes and Yes. We both have watched each other. It’s our kink. It is very intoxicating and erotic. In order to do this, you have to free yourself of all jealousy. It’s just sex and not a relationship with other couple, but friendships are built.

 

Agreed. No jealousy at all. Just a sharing of their pleasure.

 

I saw both my male and female partners having sex with another boy, and they saw me too. It was very exciting.

 

We understood that is just sex , not a relationship and that sex can be enjoyed without the hangups and jealousy that screws things up, we started to enjoy the pleasures that awaited. When we were younger and dating others, we both watched each other having sex with our dates. Oh how I miss the Drive-in Movies. I watched her sucking cock and getting fucked and she watched me as well. I remember as clear as if it were last week, She was riding her dates cock and I was fucking away in the front. I also miss bench seats. We looked over at what each other was doing and gave each other a smile and our hands met. We held each others hand as we fucked away and enjoyed. We shared a closeness that bonded us for life and we eventually married. We never did anything with anyone else until the kids were out of the house. Its just sex, not love.

 

Don't know if this qualifies under the precept of the question but I had a fuck buddy several years ago that surprised me by inviting her girlfriend to join us. What I didn't know was that they were already lovers. We had several threesomes together and I sat and watched the two of them enjoy each other at times. My FB watched her GF and me fuck too and GF watched us a time or two. It was all part of spending an afternoon together.

 

I have never watched my wife have sex with another man. All of her sex with others was when we were in different cities with one exception. I could have watched that time, but I stayed away from the open window. My wife is noisy during sex, so I heard her as she was being fucked. I promised not to watch, and I kept that promise. It was still exciting.

 

Sounds can often be better than sight and also it gets the Brain working as to what could be going on! Always times for further activity downstream, I wish I could have heard those noisy sessions, although I have encountered many similar sexual shouts travelling in France in cheap accomodation where the bedroom walls were paper thin! The French are so sexy and it's a voyeurs dream come true to travel around the country, naked sunbathing as well where sexual adventures were rampant amongst the Dunes.

 

I like the “Sound” of that!
I am my wife protector, and when we swap in separate rooms, we have a safety system worked out. If I hear her moaning with pleasure.. I know she is all right. She knows I love to watch, so many times I will join in too!

 

Yes, I have heard those sounds in hotels. We lived in an apartment and our upstairs neighbor was a sexually active young lady whose bed had squeaky springs. It seems like almost every night we could hear her being fucked, which of course inspired us to join the action in our own bed. That was fine. We were still almost newlyweds.

 

I thought it was Hot as Hell watching her from the front seat. What was really hot was the eye contact, and eventually touching hands, we had while we were with our perspective dates.. Watching her sucking cock was super hot. I couldn't see much when she was riding her dates cock. If she wanted to do it today, I would love to watch or be part of.

 

Did she know at the time you were watching?

 

Our car broke down and we had to spend a night waiting for a part to arrive. Checked into a Motel 6 (Sex) with the kids. That night there came sounds of fucking from the room next to us which woke one of the little ones. Now, try to explain why the wall was banging and that the woman on the other side wasn't being murdered. No, there wasn't any inspiration for us to have a fuck session that night.

 

Oh Yeah! We were watching each other. I mentioned how our hands met while we were doing it with our dates. We held each others hand as we came , at the same time. We both talked about how exciting it was Neither of our dates knew that we shared this moment together.

 

Did she know you watched her suck him?

 

Yes, with a few different partners. It's great how a different partner changes how you play with them but it's really noticeable if you're watching your partner withg someone else. You know how she feels and looks with you and she's a little different with others.

 

I understand and agree completely.

 

I don't think you really know your partner, until you've seen them with someone else. Rather it's another woman, or a well-hung stud, you will see another side, like it or not.

 

Not only will you see another side of your partner (Your SO) you will also see a new side of yourself. One you may not like either.

 

Not necessarily my partner, but I've been with a man while the other watched and vice versa. It happens every so often and usually takes most of the day. It was very exciting to be watched by one man while being with another, the intimacy of eye contact with the man watching can't be underestimated.