Are your toys for private times or do you share these pleasureable moments with your s/o? I always encouraged my wife to relax and enjoy without any inhibitions. I enjoyed watching her , as she enjoyed watching me. Best was using them on each other.
I love using toys on my woman on occasion, but I get even more turned on by watching her using them on herself. I've always said a man can learn a lot about a woman by watching her use her sex toys.
The best way to learn what a woman likes is to Observe. Same goes the other way. My wife wanted to watch me peg my ass with a dildo, just so she could see how I pleasure myself. Fucking my ass wth a big dildo while she was watching me was as exciting as doing it,.... well almost.
I use toys alone but also love to play with my husband. We use toys on each other and like to watch each other masturbate. I do love our toy box
One year I bought a hand held vibrator for my wife for Christmas. She seemed embarrassed when she opened the package but she loved it when we tried it out together in bed. We often used it as part of our sex together which really helped her orgasm.
My wife asked when she saw them in my drawer. I never hid them. When I told her and she said she didn't believe me and wanted to see for herself. I gave her a show to Remember. After that she had wanted to use them on me all of the time