Watching each other having sex with someone else

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  1. topper

    topper Member

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    We were talking about watching each other having sex with others and what we enjoyed the most about it.
    For us, it was before we got together and got married. Have you watched your partner having sex anytime?
     
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  2. Bocci

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    We adore it. The watcher gets to share in the pleasure of the watched. The watched has their own pleasure heightened by being watched by the person they love. If we didn’t get to share the experience, we’d see little point in having sex with others.
     
  3. Bazz888

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    A previous partner, yes, a couple of times when a small house party (two couples), we played a game until we were all nude. Forfeits during the game so we were all turned on and then she got onto the other guy. It was great to see her enjoying it, where I could look at her from angles I couldn't have done, if she was riding me. And of course when on all fours, and rubbing herself, it was so hot to watch her cumming.

    And then we fucked and her buzz on both times came from being watched by a woman she had met just a couple of hours before.

    That set the scene for when on holiday and she would step out nude onto the room balcony and call me out if there was a guy on his balcony. And one time there was a couple at it so we did it too. So hot to watch strangers doing it.
     
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  4. topper

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    We watched each other having sex, long before we ever had sex with each other. That familiarity allowed us to share a special and pleasureable time with each other, which has lasted more then half a century. I sort of miss the freedom of the 60s , music, weed and loads of sex. Unfortunately,that life ended with Marraige,family , Jobs.and all of the other stuff life throws your way until we are just two old to enjoy the same life we had in our earlier lives.
     
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  5. Panama Jack

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    We absolutely love it. It is our kink, erotic and sensual all rolled into one. All smiles.. we love it.
     
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  6. buzzgunner

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    I'm a voyeur. Always have been, always will be. When we were young, my wife and I were in an MFM threesome with a close male friend. I loved watching him fuck her and fill her with his cum. I couldn't get enough and encouraged them to fuck as often as they could, several times a day, every day, if possible. As far as I was concerned, if her pussy wasn't constantly oozing his semen, they weren't fucking often enough!
     
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  7. Hugh_36

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    I love watching my gf with her ex but she doesn’t want to see me with anyone else. To be honest I’m not that bothered as I love watching her. The seconds before he enters her, watching his sliding in and out and the last seconds as he builds to orgasm are the highlights. The intense tension is off the scale.
     
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  8. SandBook

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    Never. I'm too cautious to try it as much as the idea of it turns me on. However, I have masturbated with girlfriends and other couples who are friends. That's a lot of fun.
     
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  9. Uatu!

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    I recently watched my friend of 17 years fuck my wife- Her first cock from another man since our last 3some many years ago, and her first fuck since cancer took my prostate. I had come to the conclusion that the days of watching her juicy sex take another man were over, but when I recently started sharing our experiences here and she read them, in sparked the fire I hoped it would. I just never expected my friend would be the other.

    It's still wonderful watching her cum on cock, and then making that cock cum in all three holes. I asked if she wants to continue this, and we agree it shouldn't become a regular occurrence, but she doesn't want to return to fucking strangers like before, so I suspect I'll see her and my friend together again soon depending on how he feels about it. We haven't spoke privately since that weekend he truly got to know Lucy. He's married, so he may struggle with guilt.

    I watched my first wife fuck our co-worker many, many times. We knew he was in love with her, so she made sure to let him know all their fun was sex for the sake of lust. To be honest I believe it's because she was okay with kissing that he found it acceptable. One summer was filled with Friday-night-to-Monday-morning weekends in our home in the woods, naked and fucking like chimps whenever we wanted. She even took us outside to the open-ended wood shed one afternoon.
     
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  10. Fundude

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    We have watched each other with another couple once. It was very erotic and the sex we had when we got home was amazing.
     
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    Few bf s, I was very excited.
     
  12. jimandjan

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    Most of our swinging was with couples, Our mfm encounters were more intense. it was easy to see she was more into our friend who was well endowed than the other men when we were with couples who were smaller than me. I guess I liked her get into it, and only jealous a bit. I guess I'm a kind understanding husband and she appreciated it.
     
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