for some reason i am still a virgin at 17 even tho i have tried everything possible to get laid ive dated about 12 girls so far and always treated them respectfully but for some reason i seem to get fucked around a lot girls will tell me that they want to have sex and then change their minds ive tried putting the moves on her buying her stuff everything i dont think im that ugly but for some reason everyone around me has had sex and im still a virgin this sux any advice would be appreciated plz help me out thanx
Desperation is a stinky cologne. Calm down and take a deep breath. Alright, being seductive requires more than looks: you need confidence in yourself. If you feel (and honestly believe) that you are a strong, competent, sexy guy, I PROMISE you will attract more girls. R
well from this i would say you sound really desperate. That's usually not a good sign. Don't try to just throw your virginity away, make sure you love the person (I dont think you truly loved 12 girls) them it will be easy. just chill and go with the tides.
Uh, dude, doesn't that tell you something? Forget this "respectfully" stuff. That's not going to get you laid. Try acting a little more like a jerk, like you couldn't give a rat's ass. It's the bad boys that get the most pussy. That's a fact. Girls are attracted to that. Buying her stuff? Dude, instead of getting pussy, you're being a pussy. You don't need to "buy stuff" to get laid. Or you shouldn't. She either wants to have sex with you or she doesn't. You're being used, man.
youre definitly not mature enough to get laid yet.... youre the kind of guy that doesnt understand why sex is so beautiful. its not about 'fucking' ..... im not surprised those 12 chicks didnt want to have sex with you. youre a jackass.
dammmnnn someone got hoe'd...(sorry, had to relive HS for a moment...) why is being a virgin such a bad thing nowadays...
It's not that being a virgin is such a bad thing. It's that getting laid is such a good thing. When I was 17 I was horny as hell. I would have done anything to get laid, I was truly desparate as well, so I know how this guy feels and what he's going through. But I was never able to get it until I was 18, almost 19. And that was with a nympho I met on the phone who would do anybody anytime. So I didn't know what the hell it took to get laid by a normal girl back then either. I wish someone had helped me and given me some practical advice. Come on. This guy's asking for help, not to be put down.
Yeah, there is no need for insults or put-downs seriously. But the best advice would be- Chill. Don't worry about it- You will get laid at some point I promise. And you'll be a lot happier about it in the long run if it is 1) Not a slut 2) love the person I understand how you feel. But you just have to chill. Don't try to buy stuff for girls so you get laid, they know what your doing. Plus they know that your swicthing girls off really quick (12 is a lot). Your obviously an alright guy if you can get 12 different girls to date you. Just relax and it will happen man.
