washing

Alright my boyfriend was thinking today and so i told him i would post this to see if i could get any answers. After he has sex he washes himself like his face if he ate out, fingers if he fingered me and dick if we had intercourse. does anyone else do that for the just to be clean factor (its wet and sticky and on me lol)

 

You know what, I can't say that I do wash directly after sex.

Although come to think of it, if able to, I'll always have a shower - not to wash myself tho, but to cool myself and get rid of all the sweat (yeah, I'm a sweaty lover LOL).

Do you find it offensive that he washes?

 

no i dont find it offensive to much except when he gets up before even holdin me a bit.

 

Ah, well yes, that is a bit soon. I mean, come to think of it, I can understand washing if you're then going to go out and do stuff... but it's not something that needs to be done right away, there are more important things to be doing after sex... like all that snuggling stuff (which I actully enjoy - not many men say that now )...

 

well i can say before me and my bf started dating he's wash himself andi asked him why and he said what if some hot girl/s want to fuck or give him head or whtever do think they would if they could smell another womens scent all over me. that pissed me off. but after about a week nagging at him about it he stopped cuz he knew that he didn't want any one elses scent on him except mine ( how cute *TEAR*)

 

Now I'll wash BEFORE sex, that's a given... but not because of other scents or nowt.. just because I think it's the respectful thing to do.

 

sometimes we both shower after...or just fall asleep naked. holding each other..

 

It depends, sometimes I shower after sex, my previous bf would always get up after we were finished and bring back a warm wash cloth to clean up, what I really wanted was just to snuggle all messy but that wasn't his style, but I almost always take a quick shower before bed anyway sex or not.

 

He should hold you & cuddle you & make you happy. LATER he can get up and wash. (And hopefully he takes showers before he has sex again.)

 

If im not too exhasuted i like to take a shower...i like to be clean when i go to sleep

 

Generally I don't wash off after sex if it is before bed. If it is a daytime romp and I have to go somewhere then I'll take a shower. At night though, I actually find the smell of sex quite soothing as we drift off to sleep.

 

Hon, did he say that with any degree of seriousness, or was it just to work you? 'Cause if he meant that in any degree at all, I'd say dump his sorry ass for being an imminent cheater.

I myself am plenty into hygiene but I have never ever wanted to rush off and clean up after sex. Besides, most times when I'm having sex it's for prolonged periods of being naked and sexy together with a girl, and I'm not gonna bother washing if we're just gonna go at it again in one way or another fifteen minutes later.

As far as washing face after eating a girl out -- I don't bother. I LOVE the smell and taste of her on me. If I go out afterward, it turns me on and keeps me horny, thinking that her juice is all over my face. (Of course, it's dry and gone, really, by then. I'm not saying I don't wipe up, but I don't necessarily wash.)

I was in love with a girl once whose smell stayed on my fingers even after I washed them. Sometimes I could still smell her delicious scent on my fingers a full day or two after I had fingered her! It was a treat -- a potent reminder of the lovemaking.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

agreed, washing up afterwards is like closing the door to potential near future romps, whihc i am always...up for *rim shot*

it's been a very long time but i might want to whipe my face if i ate her out for too long...i do have a beard..and im not too sure if you're aware of the term guzzle bucket...but its not very endearing.

 

I don't know that term... what does it mean?

as far as washing after sex... I would probably be a little offended in your situation because if I love the person i've slept with... or really even if i don't... I want to cuddle and bask in the messy sweaty warmth of what we just did. I had a very serious boyfriend a couple years back who told me he could smell me on his fingers when he left for boot camp ( we had a little "romp" the night before ) and he loved it... that made me feel awesome sex is messy and fun, and in my opinion, if someone feels the urge to clean up right after then maybe they should think about the actual act? i mean, if he feels dirty after, then how does he feel while actually doing it? does the thought of a girls' wetness all over his face gross him out?

i don't know, i guess i just don't understand where this guy is coming from. but... a good suggestion i think is maybe to shower with him afterwards, so then you're still being intimate, and not being left in the bed while he goes to the bathroom (if that is the case) i think that would be nice: making love, showering together, and then falling asleep naked, holding each other, and smelling like soap/shampoo... yeah that sounds good to me

 

Sometimes I feel like I wanna jump up right afterwards and take a shower. Sometimes I can stand waiting a bit. I always come back to cuddle though. I am a hygine freak and take 2 or 3 showers a day anyway.

 

I like to wash off also. It's just for cleanliness though, so I don't feel icky! I wouldn't take it personal.

 

I like to wallow in it...haha... I usually lie there for so long resting afterwards that I don't have time to take a shower.... It puts me to sleep.

 

Yeah but you gotta admit the crusty feeling all over your stomach a few hours later isn't the greatest either :H

 

heh, well, when your eating a girl out, things can get rather juicy...when yoiu have a beard instead of those juices running down your butt, or off my chin, they sometimes collect in the hairs of the beard. a guzzle bucket is refrence to the beard unique ability to retian the juices for later consumption.
like i said...it's not a very endearing term.

 

I generally don't wash after sex unless I am going out. I love to hug and kiss afterwards and washing is the least of my priorities. In fact, it's quite cool to drift off to sleep with the smell of sex in the room and the natural juices of your lover mixed with yours.


Mark