warts: sexual death sentence?

About a year ago, I finally let go of my virginity with my current GF. We've had over a year of wonderful affection and good times as we've shared our love and lives together.

Now I'm seeing signs that I'm quite sure are the early stages of warts.

Here's my question: Is this a death sentence to ANY future relationships, if this one does not last?

Keep in mind that I'm about twice the age of most of the people here, and I don't believe in playing games. I always try for complete honesty, and consideration of the other person.

Also, I don't want to end my relationship with my wonderful GF, but there are some very, very big problems that I've discovered over time, and they are becomming more and more of an issue.

I guess I want to know if: if this relationship ends, is there another option besides being completely alone forever?

 

I think I would break up with you over being such a total dramaqueen instead of having 'early stages of what quite sure are warts'.

Second.. you mean genital warts? Go to a doctor and see if it can be fixed!

 

Look up "genital warts" at WebMD. The information you find there may be of great help to you.


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I thought genital warts were an std? So surely there's questions there you want to be asking?

 

your screwed. Have fun with that!

 

im sorry to hear about your situation. it makes me want to be more aware of who I'm with. It can be very detrimental to the sex life i wont deny. umm.... I dont think i,prsonally, would be able to be with someone with any permanent condition. you should talk to a doctor asap. go to a walk in clinic today if possible.

 

define 'permanent condition'... because you sound really really harsh now.

 

It's called HERPIES for life. Still no cure. I hope you don't have anything against perscription drugs.

 

I'm just being realistic and honest. The man could probably find a woman who is willign to accept that. But it is PERMANENT condition, the warts. you could get them slightly removed by a very painful burning procedure.... but it still wouldn't rid him of the actual disease. AND it is a challenge finding someone who would overlook it. Maybe i do sound harsh, but the truth often is. I'm not some idealist living in a fairy world.

 

well.. let's just say what comes around goes around. As long as you don't mind your partner dumping you if you need to have one breast removed because of cancer or something like that, I won't say a word. Your life, your choice.. just don't be a hypocrite.

 

you need to stop being so naive. I understand your point... and i ideally that would be the case. a day when people would overlook bodily imperfections. unfortunately thats not the present case.

 

herpies and warts are totally difrent things also harmless warts do accurr not just in the genital area but hands,fingers etc.

 

I wouldn't really worry about it to much... There are so many lets say easy girls out there with this disease. It's like aids, you can't catch it twice.

 

WRONG.

 

No your wrong.

 

You're calling me naive? Hey, my boyfriend is short than I am and we do get comments on that.. do I care? No. Why? Because it's not just about the perfect length or in this case the perfect dick or whatever. Call me naive if you like, but if you want to sart like that, I think you're really shallow and I feel almost guilty for hoping that someday a guy you love will ditch your little miss perfect butt because you have some 'bodily imperfection'. Damn girl, grow up.

 

ha! well forgive me, and perhaps i am shallow because genital warts dont appeal to me. I guess I am prissy because i dont like my men/women diseased.

 

i seen little kids with warts in theyr hands ok . with little treatment they went away . however prissy brains is a deadly disease

 

actually you can catch it twice. There are diferent strains of the HI-Virus, and thus you can catch more then one type of Aids, witch makes the treatment a lot more mdifficult then it already is. Plus, if you have more then one type you pass on more then one type.

 

Why we went from warts to HIV? THATS LIKE going from pimples to anus cancer.