Want to be alone

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  1. Naruto

    Naruto Member

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    Don't you guys just want to be alone sometimes? I mean there could be no apparent reason, but you just don't feel like talking much, doing much, and going out. Not really picking up phone calls.
    Thats just how I been feeling. No big reason...just been feeling a little in the "whatever" mood. My gf thinks I'm not telling her something. Ugh. Am I the only one that feels this way sometimes?
     
  2. jaredfelix

    jaredfelix Namaste ॐ

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    no way man, i get this all the time... im bi-polar though, maybe even depressed... but i dont like to think i am, i think im fine.
    i also enjoy being bored sometimes.
     
  3. Jimmy P

    Jimmy P bastion of awesomeness

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    Nope. I'm a loner by nature and I enjoy, and sometimes truly need, my own company. It's fun to be social, and important to have people around you, but it's equally important - maybe moreso for men than women - to have alone time.
     
  4. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Love being alone at times for no apparent reason other then I just like to spend that time alone :)
     
  5. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    I love solitude! I get so tired of all the pulls on my attention during the day that I turn into an angry bitch when I don't have settling time.
     
  6. opel diamond

    opel diamond burn out

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    i love being alone somtimes too. just getting some peace with my own thoughts and feelings. just relaxing by myself. sometimes its the best medicine for me. im not very socialble anyway. give me a deserted moorland and some wildlife and im happy :)

    and yes i rarely have my phone on, only turn it on to get in touch with the hubby.
     
  7. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

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    i love being alone whether i'm in a foul mood or a great mood. i also love being with people whether i'm in a foul mood or a great mood . . . the two are not related for me, some times are alone times and some times are social times.
     
  8. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    Yep.
    Most of the time I am alone. I work away from home, and I get used to the solitude. when I go home and im being pulled in 5 different directions, I feel overwhelmed.
    I too am a loner by nature, so it exasperates me.
    I have two friends, both of who dont like crowds. We usually chill at my house, make food, listen to music, just us two or three.
    I keep my phone on, but i dont get many calls since everyone knows they need to text me if they need me, and that way I have the option of answering when I feel like it.
    My sister says Im crazy for not wanting to marry. She said she didnt know how I could handle being alone. I think there's a difference between being alone and being lonely.
     
  9. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    I think everybody needs some "me time" sometimes. If your girlfriend can't understand that, maybe you should find someone who isn't living under a rock? ;)
     
  10. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    yesterday was that day for me...i didn't want anyone around, i wanted to just do my own thing and shut off my phone and be left alone for once
     
  11. Greengirl

    Greengirl Senior Member

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    yes sometimes i do, after a couple of days being outside the city with friends, than after coming back i most definitely feel the need to stay alone and have some of "my time"
     
  12. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    I'm somewhat a loner. I have no close friends right now other than my kids. They're all grown. Now it's mostly me my 3 cats and 2 dogs.
     
  13. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

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    that's all a man needs
     
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