want him to call me

Ok here we go...

I met this basketball player at the gym last year. He's 21 and I'm 29...but I had never slept with a 21 year old while me being in my 30s (these are the sexual primes of a man and a woman)... plus he works out 3 times every day... anyway I wanted to try him...

We slept together last November once and since then he sent me something like 5-6 msn's mainly saying how are you etc...

I also have him on my facebook... he keeps busy with women... he's got many ( He is wearing a condom every time we are having sex)....

we speak let's say once per two weeks or something...

two weeks ago... he messaged me and I told him to come to my place and fuck.. he said ok... and came over ... I was wearing fishnets and garterts... and the sex was AMAZING... the second best sex I ever had and definitely the most animal passionate one...

Ohh I forgot to mention that he has a girlfriend (which he is cheating).... Anyway...

after that I changed my profile pic on facebook and he changed his pic something like 10 times in a day.. then he was online the whole day.. but didn't speak to me...

I had switched my status to in a relationship because I wanted to break somebody else's nerves... and he switched his status to single for two days... but didn't talk to me... and his gf had no idea what is going on...

anyway after two days he apologized to her and now I'm not sure whether they are together or not... anyway...

what I want from him is to be with his girlfriend (because if he doesn't he will be sleeping around and I don't want to get some sexually transmitted disease)
but I also want to have secretly from his gf sex with him once per week....

I also want him to message me first.. because I have never messaged him.. he always does the first step...

what should I do???? I think to change my status to single, or to change my pic again, or comment one of his... anyway... what do u suggest to do in order to make him talk to me.

I think he wants to but other women keep him busy... plus I bet his gf is not good at bed... if she was he wouldn't be fooling around... I also think he also though that the sex we had last time was really really good... I just want him for sex once per week or something...

 

I hope you don't mind, but I edited your post to make it easier to read.

In the future, please refrain from posting in one long paragraph because this makes it hard to read (and less likely for people to want to respond).

You don't have to be obsessed with correct grammar and punctuation, but at least leave some spaces in between.

Peace.

 

LOL, you were just a booty call. Just leave it at that. If he wants you, he will come around, if not, well you get the picture. Sounds like you are both a couple of cheaters, its one thing if you are young and dumb like this dude is, but at nearly thirty and you are probably already in a relationship, you should know better. But thats my opinon.

 

I'm seeing somebody else too... but I'm not in a relationship.... I've got more than I can count as back ups but I haven't found my significant other yet.... If I don't find it the following 2-3 years I'll marry one of the back ups...

I just want sex with this guy because it was damn good... it was the second best I ever had in my life! I'll leave it roll and play it friends with him... he promised me last time to play basketball together at the gym... so I can try my new arm (coz I broke it)... I will be friendly but not flirty... that will puzzle him.... he's got all the easy sex he can ever get in his life... plus I will play him... like a king... I'll have to put my sense of humor into the game... (king-funny and warrior -lover combinations)...

Last time we had sex it was after his work out and he was tired... so I wasn't amazed or anything... but last time... was OHH GOD!!!

 

"I want him to message me first", haha.

 

LOL. Marry one of the backups huh? " Hey sorry I didn't find the love of my life so I guess you'll do, wanna marry me? " LOL. You sound like a manipulative woman from hell.

What doesn't make sense to me, if you want someone, call them for crying out loud lol. Waiting for someone to message you? Trying to figure out sublte ways to make him call you? Newsflash hun, guys don't do sublte.

 

If I fall in love I love passionately and I have eyes for noone else...I don't even look... But for the moment I'm having fun... since I can't find the love of my life...


Update

He said hi on facebook chat today.. I was super cool, who are u kind of behavior, ohh ya and we had sex 2 weeks ago.. here's what I did...

I told him that I find it very funny that he is cheating on his gf and that even if i don't know her i feel very bad about it...

He said that i want him like hell and that i love his dick.

and then i complimented him that he's the second best sex i ever had.. (here's the trick not the first but second so that insecurities grow inside him so that he will want to be number one and thus fuck me again)

I also told him...that since he's sweethearts with his gf i don't want to get in the middle... and told him if he has some teemate without a sweetheart just for hardcore sex once per week to let me know....

he said ... ok.... ( last time i told him that he wanted to be that teemate)

and then I told him to feel free to advertise the bust with garters and the fishnets that i was wearing... and then got out of chat... without waiting for a reply... ( that way i reminded him the quality of sex which i bet has nothing to do with the quality of a 19 year old girl)

a)He will be back... next time he has a fight with his gf
b)he will not send me any teemate of his...

In the meanwhile.. I have the one I'm dating... which is not what i want... but is better than nothing..

 

Let me get this straight, You're 8 years older and he sounds like a bit of a player, the type that doesnt have trouble getting girls, and you're talking about being his girlfriend, even marrying him?


What do you think is going to happen when you are 40, he is 32 and still able to pull 20 year old girls?

 

I was talking about having sex with him once per week while he is with his gf. I don't want to do anything serious with him.

 

You should probably go to hell, because you are cheating too. This whole story screams out- ME ME ME ME I ME. I can't stand narcissistic people like you. I've never called anyone a "bitch" on here yet, but now is a first.
Actually I like dogs, you are just a pile of shit! Try jumping off a bridge....

 

This is what I don't like about women. You know what you want but won't be straight about it. Females shouldn't play games.

 

all this talk of fucking hardcore and animal passion is driving me CRAZY. i need to have passionate sex!!! how much longer can i possibly wait before i fucking really do go crazy?

please no one respond with "just go for it man"

 

So why all the Facebook stuff then?


If you just want sex, seems its most important he is assured absolute discretion. Make it clear to him every time he wants jiggy jig with you just text or whatever. Any silly little games and you will scare him away.

By the sounds of it he's a guy that wouldnt have much trouble finding another, far more discrete fuck friend

And why not give him a call every now and then? Not too often, but every couple of months or so

 

I'm not cheating. I'm anonymous here. I have no reason to hide a relationship if I had any. I have never cheated on anyone. If something is wrong I just break up and move on...

 

I'm being super discrete till now. It's just that he cheated with more than one this time. He broke up with her for two days and she forgave him. I mean he's damn good at bed. We are having sex once every two months. I just want it more often.
I will tell him if he found me a teemate to fuck once per week. May be he will offer to do it himself again...

 

You sound like one stupid fucking whore!

 

You are off topic...

 

+4

 

It's funny how the guys like this one black widow is hooking up with are never the ones that call girls that like sex sluts or whores

 

I think the guy that called me whore is not really satisfied with his sexual life and is trying to minimize the kind of woman he always desired but never had because she chooses to be with the alpha male kind of man...