Visual attraction

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  1. johnsmall23

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    Speaking only visually, would a big penis(lets's say about 8-9 inches and thick) be more impressive to you and would it make you more turned on that a 6 inch one?
     
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    Even a 6 incher can look impressive at the right camera angle. And thickness can take away the appearance of length. (skinny and long looks longer than thick and long)
     
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    i'm talking about in person
     
  4. homerx

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    Both would be good for me. Long as they look good! Now that I’m thinking about having two cocks to play with I’m horny... Thanks!!!
     
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    you wouldn't prefer the bigger one at all?
     
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    My bad. Definitely more impressive but also perhaps more and too intimidating. I'm happy with my girthy 7. Big enough to impress but not overwhelming. :sunglasses:
     
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    Depends on what it’s attached to...;-)
     
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    NO a Big/Huge dick is not a turn on for me. I like a dick no more than 6 1/2 or 7 inches.
     
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  9. Barry Mandelay

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    There was a study done by two universities, one in California, the other in New Mexico. The study asked women when shown three dimensional examples of erect cocks which ones they would select for having sex. The majority selected the larger example for one time sex and the next size smaller for a long term relationship. Most women are visually attracted to larger erections. As for myself I am not attracted to men for sex but do marvel at seeing a large cock although I have never seen an erection, other than my own, outside of a porn video or picture.
     
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    Not me, but my wife sometimes comments about the big bulge that a man has, so she would probably be impressed by the big one.
     
  11. NubbinsUp

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    More impressive? No. More turned on? No. You use the word "attraction" in the title of the thread. Would it attract my desire? No. Would it attract my attention? Certainly, I'd notice.

    "Impressive" means "evoking admiration through size, quality, or skill; grand, imposing, or awesome". Without going too far down the dictionary rabbit hole, I'll offer that "admiration" means "respect and warm approval". A particularly large penis is just the luck of the draw. I wouldn't consider it "impressive" for the same reason I wouldn't find someone who has won a large lottery jackpot impressive for having bought a ticket with the best numbers. It may be nice for the one who has it, and for those interested in exploring with him what he can do with it, but it isn't really an accomplishment or the type of thing I would admire.

    Neighbor down the street won the genetic lottery and has a large penis, or won an actual monetary lottery jackpot? Good for him, but I don't find it impressive, nor would seeing his penis make me want to have any kind of sexual contact with him.

    Now, whether the visual appearance would create a lasting impression on me (yes the same root word), I'd have to say yes. However, the same is true of the smallest penises I've seen on men. I've seen probably 2,000 men nude in person over the course of my life, and I distinctly remember only the two largest and the three smallest penises in any detail. It's normal. We tend to notice what's unusual. The vast majority, those in or near the average range, are a blur. I didn't notice them at the time, and they left no lasting memory. I have no lasting memory of what they looked like, but the biggest and smallest, yes, I could describe them in detail, even today. They're anomalous. Seeing one that looks like a little sewing thimble, or one that's swinging near a man's knees is something I'd notice.

    Not being turned on by men in general, although I can appreciate the beauty of the nude male form because I find the human form to be beautiful in all of its manifestations, I find only my own penis arousing in any way. It's neither 6 nor 9 inches long.
     
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