I hate the label of "virgin" Everybody makes it out to be such a big deal. I just have trouble connecting to girls "emotionally" even though i am attractive and i have a pretty big penis. I don't really care that i'm a virgin, but it is annoying for two reasons 1eople make it a big deal 2:It would be nice. Hell i would probably fuck a slut, I guess i don't go out that often though. Mabey i just need to get a girl from craigslist.
I'd say we're in the same boat, you just don't know it yet... I'd say we are both socially retarded people that are somewhat aware no one can tell we have big wangs, are way to old to still be virgins(but are) and we dont date because honestly, we arent that good looking, and are far to self centered to ever actually support another person "emotionally" in a healthy relationship... but thats just my guess.
Well, you are right about "socially retarded" pretty much. I'm 20 years old though, and i know i'm not super attractive, but i know i'm attractive. I know because even though i suck at conversing, people still gravitate towards me, and girls give me that magical "look". But yeah you are right about the self centered thing, I really like always doing my own thing and thinking as freely as possible.
I think it all depends on each person. As far as I'm concerned, not all of us are socially retarded. Some of us are more interested in having a quality first time rather than to lose our virginity for the pure sake of losing it only to look back later and regret it. Plus, it's better to have a true sense of self than to always have others run your life, anyway. If you're off doing your own thing, then that's one way of nurturing your inner self. Sometimes you really have to be by yourself if you want to learn more about yourself, so to speak. Once you attain a certain level of comfort in yourself, you'll begin to find yourself feeling more confident in various social situations. That's what I think.
