Very weird fantasy about my G/F. advice/opinions

Well I recently started to realize a fantasy that I didnt want to believe was my fantasy. The fantasy is having my girlfriend of almost 3 years to have sex with another guy or guys, once or a couple of times. And/or like one day she (maybe me too) hang out in a room/house with bunch of guys and have her dressed up real sexy and flirty with her high heels and tease all of the guys by dancing and showing herself (I just thought of this since she's so naturally flirtatious). I would also love to be in a 3some with her (mmf). I dont know why it turns me on so much thinking about my girlfriend of almost 3 years which I really truly love, doing all this stuff with all these guys. Last night I told her my fantasy (only the one of her and another guy) and she said she wouldn't do that to me or herself. I'm a jealous guy but I keep imaginin her half stripped down teasing a bunch of guys and doing it, I dont know why I'm ok with it and really want her to it. Do any of you out there have any similar cases or fantasies?
Oh and please dont post if you're only gonna be insulting.

 

well theres nothing wrong with the fantasy, although im basically the opposite. and basically no matter how much you want her to do it, shes told you she doesnt want to so i wouldnt go trying

 

darn


Is your fantasy based on seeing your girl go with other men ... but you having power ??? ...she will return to you .??

This thing about letting your g/f be with other men is weird (TO ME) but maybe not wishing a g/f to be with other men is just as controling...mmm maybe controling is the wrong word ... maybe confidence or lack of it.

 

ok here's my view, i'll get physocoanalysisic, i think that you're so proud of her you want to show her off to other guys but still know she's yours.

 

psycho, not physoco

 

Yes I'm very proud of her, in fact I wanted her to be a stripper back in May when she turned 18 (I actually posted it here too) I would really like for her to do it, it could be controlling as you mentioned, didnt think of it that way but I was listening to the radio a couple of days ago and this girl said that she did 2 other guys while her bf watched, I wouldn't mind trying that out, having my g/f have her brains fucked by another guy....I know she's gonna read this tomorrow, (sorry baby I have to say it so dirty) Also I just read this post from this girl that her husband had the same fantasy and they're both loving it. Which I hope she decides to give it a try...maybe we'll both love it.

Thanks for all your opinions, and keep replying

 

to patronise him even more its Psychoanalys but to Psychoanalys why he chose physocoanalysisic at this time on a sunday is psycho.

 

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=17317&page=1&pp=10

so you guys see I'm not alone and this girl ended up LOVING the idea

 

but they are married ... that might make it more erm a fantasy within the confines of marriage , but your g/f could walk off with another man and kinda dump your ass... likely within marriage ?? yeAH but less likely ...but anyway what do i know ?? why not try swinging ?? http://www.swingersboard.com/

 

but he also fucked her sister without telling her...

and they didnt use condoms when fucking others.

 

thats not right...i personanly think well organised swinging parties are okish ...everyone is safe and know whats what.... would never go for it myself ... its a bit extreme just to spice up a relationship.

 

Well, I'm not gonna be fuckin anyones sister....the only fuckin thats gonna be happening is some guys and my girl if she decides to try it out. I agree they are married and its less likely that she'll leave but if she were to leave me for some other guy then I guess she wasnt worth it, I'm 100% willing to take that chance.

 

I guess if your both up for it ..then why not. I just watched a documentary a while back ,were couples talked about what it is like and what other people think ...no real suprises shock/horror/dismay/intrigue... i do think that its a bit devisise ...but i am a bit of a jealous kinda guy so thats not saying much.. the green eyed monster would be lurking in my thoughts.

 

Can't you just be happy having a normal, loving relationship with your girl..instead of trying to get into a risky situation?
if she said she wouldnt do that to you and herself, she's clearly saying she wont go for it. stop. please, fantasies are good for the mind and spirit, but if she said no, please stop.
why dont you do some foreplay and act out this whole fantasy but just you two alone. Less hassle and still fun.

 

If she said she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to. I certainly wouldn't do that to someone I was committed too, even though a mmf (or more m's) has been a fantasy of mine for years. Maybe you can find something else that satisfies that desire to change something in the bedroom.... what if you two fucked while someone watched online? Or she masturbated with someone online (webcams) - but ONLY if she is open to the idea without any pressure from you.

That said, I think I would have dumped any guy who wanted me to become a stripper when I turned 18. Maybe if he only wanted me to do a little show for him and him alone, but certainly not for other people or money. How awful and degrading (for most people at least)

 

haha i'm very sorry, i was thinking of psycotherapy then psycoanalysts then pysocology and i couldn't decide so i thought i'd be all multi-talented

 

It's actually psychoanalysis.

 

AHHH! leave me alone!
or i'll... run!

 

hahahahh lets get realy anal about it mmm

ok here's my view, i'll get physocoanalysisic, i think that you're so proud of her you want to show her off to other guys but still know she's yours.

I don't think either one of us is right if we replace our word with his ???...i think i will Psychoanalys ... now i think i am right .. if you start the sentence like that ..but he did not so yeah ok i was wrong ...but your not right either .. i spent many minutes worrying about if it was Psychoanalys or psychoanalysis .. but it was his use of 'i'll get' that made it immpossible to deciede

 

kool, you do that, you get psychoanalistic dammit! ....sorry bored