Me and my boyfriend have this wild squirrel we've been taming by feeding him. He comes into the house, lets my man pet him (I'm too scared too) and crawl up his leg to get a nut. Well today I finally got the nerve to and I had a squirrel crawl up my leg for the first time!!!! and WOW was it cool. I tell my man to watch right before it happens and tell him how excited I am (he's right by me playing video games). I turn around when its all over and he didn't watch a damn thing! Didn't pause his game, nothing!!! fag But when I was around and he did that to the squirrel it was important to him that I share the momment with him. I wanna give him the silent treatment. I done already told him how I feel. I mean maybe it wasn't the biggest thing ever but it pisses me off when I want him to witness something meaningful in my life and he ignores it. Fuck that!
Well, I can empathize with you because I also feel birds, and squirrels have been coming around, and they are quite tame, I can feed them from my hand. It is very exciting to interact with wild animals, and I can understand your enthusiasm to share your adventure with your mate. I know I would be trying to share that with someone if they were sitting on the couch nearby. I would be screaming " Look , Look, isnt that amazing ?" If he didn't want to join in my excited scenario, i guess I would be offended also. It is a rare experience to have that kind of wildlife adventure, and I would think he would want to join in on the fun. Well maybe it was getting old for him, since the critter had climbed up his leg allready, but I still think he could have watched you doing your thing with the squirrel. Is he interested in what you are doing in other aspects of your life? Maybe this is just a one time occasion. I am sure you are over your upset allready. Squirrells are very interesting creatures. We have 3 who all hang around our place, and they stay outside if we feed them bird seed outside, but come right in the house when we don't keep up with the hand-outs. Some people say that squirrells are just rats with cuter outfits. They haven't gotten up close and personal with squirrels. I love em.
That sounds really disappointing. But I think you have to talk it out with him first. Tell him about this, so that next time he won't have excuses. Well, as they say, "boys will always be boys," where he kept playing games instead of spending that time with you. Better talk to him first because if you won't clarify it to him, that simple misunderstanding may lead to a bigger one. __________________________ conversation skills Free Report reveals secrets to making great conversation. Get it here: http://www-conversation.com/ communication skills Free Report reveals communication skills secrets that work like magic. Get it here: http://www-communicationskills.com/
A.B.E. and me agree!!! Squirrels are terrific critters and funny friends. This one that comes is so friendly and tame, but I do have to keep in mind he's wild and isn't instinctively adapt at befriending humans. The other day I let him in and he started sniffing my bare toes!! He put both of his little squirelly paws around my big toe and brought his mouth over it! He didn't bite, more like he tasted me with his toung to check me out! So now I always wear socks when I answer the door for them... (He knocks lol) About my man... we talked about it and he understands. He don't know why he does stuff like that. I guess more of a lack of thought process than one thats purposely trying to undermine me. I think it might be a male thing also b/c anytime I tell my dad, grandad, or boyfriend to look at something they take their sweet time (which means they usually miss it). Like they can't talk and turn their heads all at once or pause what they're doing to join in on the fun. I think it has to do with linear thinking and doing and thinking one thing at a time and when someone says "LOOK!" they put it on the back burner til they're ready for it. But they usually miss out... and I think that sucks. ::shrugs:: I don't know for sure. I ask them to explain themselves and they can't. They don't know why they do certain things. If only they could explain, I could understand, and maybe think of another way to make them look. Like "That midget in a bikini's raping an osterage, LOOK!!!". Hahah then I bet they would
Not to ruin the thread or anything, but I would advise against petting or letting the squirrel in your house. They are notorious for carrying disease and have been known to bite, not to mention the trouble they can cause once inside the house.
sorry if this wasn supposed to funny, but he's letting squirrel's crawl up his leg for nuts?...how many does he have?..haha. but seriously tho, i know what you mean. its as if when they do something, you ave to show support, laugh, smile etc...but when you do it, they dont seem bothered. that annoy's me soooo much, and im a guy. hope you sort it, or him, out [= x
Well I suggest you investigate the issue and get to the bottom of how many times he actually ignores what you need. And then make time to talk about it. Silent treatment is childish and unworthy of anyone!
I know. I told him my feelings before I decided to shut him out for a minute. Probably more for me than for him really. We talk. I have a habit of talking about everything which kinda annoys him b/c I don't ignore problems, I analyze them til I can understand them. Hahah I was wondering when someone was gonna say something about the nuts!! lol! No we hold the nut up on our pants to see the squirrel crawl up to get it It's really cute, and I'm sure alittle dangerous
I find your gaybashing incredibly offensive. What on earth does being gay have to do with not watching you fuck around with a squirrel? Frankly, if he were gay, he would not be your boyfriend. I really hate lowlifes who hate homosexuals.
Ooops. . that must have been said unintentionally. Crystals, I think you might just have to consider this thing happening sometimes. Maybe boys will always be boys, right? He might not be on his mood that time for those stuff. But anyways, its good that you talk it out to him. But don't let the issue become bigger. This might just be a small one for him. Good luck. _____________________ conversation skills Free Report reveals secrets to making great conversation. Get it here: http://www-conversation.com/ communication skills Free Report reveals communication skills secrets that work like magic. Get it here: http://www-communicationskills.com/
What the hell..watching a squirrel and loose the game at its final stage...i can watch it next time...Hahahaha Maybe he looked quickly and turned back.. Once i'm concentrating on something i do not want even God to disturb me.FullStop. Ladies..think..when we men play a game..it is a game...no...it is survival..me or the monsters...hahahaha.
