right, heres the deal looking to get sterilised once i turn 18, i live in the uk, and ive been hearing about how doctors wont do it, is this over here too?? before anyone starts on the changing your mind thing, im sure most of you can say youd never murder somebody, and nobody would say 'well in 5/10 yearrs, you might want to murder the right person', in my book, having children is worse than murder i never ever want children, and i hate using condoms, so this would be a one time operation and id be sorted for life
but why? cant i sign a waiver saying i wil not sue if i change my mind?? cos thats what they must be worried about i want this boxed off soon as i can, if i had the choice, id do it today
It's because of your age really. That's the long and the short of it. No matter what they won't do it, you'll just have to wait a few years.
Dude, I had my 3rd kid on the way and I had to convince the doctor and get my wife's permission to have it done. It is fucked up, but really. You are 16. You have no idea what your life will be like 2 years from now, let alone 16 years from now. Wait, be patient. Condom's suck, you are correct. Live with it. I am the first to admit that it was the best thing I could have done and I am completely happy with my decision. I also was 33 and had 3 kids.
Your not 'stuck' with condoms, if you get a steady girlfriend she can go on the pill, though they don't protect from STDS. When I was 16 I was the same as you, I thought that if I got pregnant I'd off myself, kids were worst then death. Now I'm about to get married and I'm planning on having 2 children. You can't KNOW right now that you wont want to have children, you are so very young. As the saying goes, hire a teenager now, while they still know everything. Your going to change so much over the next 2 years, just you wait.
marriage, thats another stupid one can you explain what changed your mind, because everyone whos like me seems to change. my life plan right now consists of try everything till i get bored of it all ten off myself, how does one go from that to the tradition married with kids thing
also, is there any way i can DIY sterilise myself, preferably without knives, and preferably permsnently
Don't try to do it yourself, you can end up without a dick and a terrible infection. I changed my mind over years of being treated like shit and finding someone who I love dearly. I was sitting there one day, thinking to myself and I knew that my life wouldn't be as good without him in it. And when he asked me to marry him I had to say yes. Check out www.bmezine.com for information on sterlization
that sites asking for a username and password and i spose your feelings are your own, but i cant see ymself ever getting married, i mean it just seems ignorant, pretending like forever even exists in a world where people die every day. god i feel like crap
i dont want this change im not gonna turn round and betray these beliefs that are guiding my whole life
I didn't either, on the plus side 'they' have been working on a male birthcontrol pill for awhile, that could help you.
