Vaginal sex question from 1st timer

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Mark5551, May 2, 2022.

  1. Mark5551

    Mark5551 Newbie

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    Even though I was very attracted to the woman I was with, and had a rock hard cock, I found the actual act of penetration totally unstimulating. I have a few "pocket pussy" sex toys and when using them, I feel a texturing of sorts which is very stimulating. I've tried using a condom with the sex toys and they still feel stimulating. But, the real vagina just seemed smooth and loose by comparison and I couldn't orgasm, not even close.

    Since I only have experience one real vagina, I've wondered if maybe it was just that particular one or if maybe sex toys have given me an unrealistic expectation for the amount of stimulation to expect.

    Is my description of "smooth and loose compared to sex toy" typical of vaginas?

    Are some vaginas tighter than others?

    Thanks much for any advice anyone may have.
     
  2. Captain Scarlet

    Captain Scarlet Lifetime Supporter

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    I will move this after say one week to here Genitalia should you not get any further responses :)
     
  3. Andy Schumer

    Andy Schumer Members

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    While I have no experience, from what I read before I will compare that to porn.
    There is a chance that the extra stimulation experienced with the toy vagina condition due to expect something comparable. But not all women are the same. Maybe overtime you will be able to achieve orgasm with a woman if you don’t use a fake vagina so much.

    back to the porn, there are many things I read about people becoming desensitized to actual sex because of what they watch on porn.
     
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