First off, a little about us. We have been married for over 30 years and are a loving couple. I know she was more sexually active than me before marriage and I never had a problem with it. About 10 years ago she suggested we attend a swinger bar meet. We went, had a good time, met some nice folks and entered the swinging lifestyle. At house parties she was again much more active than me. She loved the variety of men she could enjoy. A few couples and guys we met outside of parties and had some sexy times. Now on to the question. We will be travelling a bit this summer to visit relatives and this will require a hotel stay along the way, each way. She has never been the kind of woman to initiate sex with another man. She subtlely flirts, but nothing overt. I have tried to get her to, but she doesn't do it. I have no doubt that she would enjoy an MFM or two along the way though. She does fantasize about stranger sex. She has mentioned it and gets off quickly when thinking about it during sex. So how can we really tell if a guy would be open to the possibility of playing with us? We are not much for bars and a restaurant seems too family oriented to try a pick up. Where would we find someone in what would be considered a normal everyday place? She doesn't know that I'd am trying to find recreation for the vacation, so it would have to be a normal spot. Perhaps it will just remain a fantasy.
First of all, find a motel where there are lots of "working" men staying. These guys are away from home and away from whatever pussies they have at home, so they are more than anxious to find a "free" fuck while they are away. Whatever you can to expose your wife to them will be most helpful. Maybe it will be a skimpy swim suit at the poor, or a dress with lots of cleavage. Then, you, the husband, need to be friendly to them also, so that they will know that you will not be a problem. One technique that has worked for a few couples is to spend time at the pool or the bar, and get the attention of at least one other guy. Then announce, loud enough for him to hear, that you are going to a room, so that your wife can shower. There's a good chance this guy will follow you, and if you go slowly he will not lose his way. When you get to the room, leave the door open and have your wife undress where he can see her. If he is still there, invite him in, and the rest is easy.
Many websites will let you see pictures and contact people to set up meetings for sex. So you can narrow down by specific location. Much easier then trying to go some place and find someone.
