When my ex and I separated, one of the first things I did was buy a Fleshlight. Love that thing! My wife and I will break it out from time to time to switch things up. Anyone else use an 'accessory' for the task, and what do you recommend?
I'm with you on the fleshlight. Love the feel of some of the sleeves. Almost like fucking a real pussy. I also use cock rings of various sizes. I place them in different locations on or over my genitals for a much larger and firmer, more sensitive erection. For anal play try an Aneros prostate vibrator. Maybe wear a butt plug for an hour or two before fucking your ass with the vibrator. It's nice to be good and relaxed back there before vibrator insertion. As with all of these toys lube is essential.
I have used a vibrating masturbation sleeve called juicy Lucy it really great, I did post elsewhere on here about me and a mate buying one each and using them together that was really great, I have used a few pump type ones that are supposed to simulate a blow job but never found them as good a silicone sleeve.