Ok, I had sex with this girl almost 2 weeks ago, without protection. I know it was stupid, and it was the first and last time I'll do it again, so don't jump all over me please. I'm seeking advice from you guys here. She really likes me and we did it, with me explaining that I don't want a relationship and if I do this, it's a one time thing. She says ok. So we do it, I do NOT finish. At all. I didn't cum the whole night during and after sex. I am positive about this. I'm aware that pre-cum can cause pregnancy, however I read that if you pee before sex that it cleans out any sperm that could get in pre-cum if you came earlier. I used the bathroom more than 3 times before sex. It only lasted about 5 minutes because I said I can't do this because it's wrong. Well she starts crying and saying she LOVES me and that all she wants is to be with me. I told her she's my friend but I can't have a relationship now. I felt horrible. A lot of girls around here have told people theyre pregnant when they really weren't like theyre starving for attention as bad as it sounds. It seems like a trend here. Anyway, she texts me a week later. I haven't heard from her since we did it. She asks, "hey you didnt finish when we did it, did you?" I say no, and ask why. she eventually says she's babysitting a 7 month old and she was just wondering. I realize at this point that she is one of the girls that have been saying she was pregnant in the past. Anyway, less than a week goes by without talking when she texts me and says she's having major moodswings (which she already has), and she's starving one second and not the next. It hasn't even been 2 whole weeks, are these normal symptoms at this point? I truly feel like she's trying to trap me so I'll be with her. I've never seen someone cry like that when she did right after we stopped, and she started saying she wants to be with me more than anything. I'm very worried that its possible, but then again, she is doing everything a girl that tells that lie does. I know she's played this game before with someone else. I'm just really concerned. I'm going to get her take a test with me there, regardless. Considering that it wasn't long at all, and I used the bathroom plenty of times before, and absolutely did not finish, is it a slim chance she's telling the truth? Or is she pulling the trick again?
I agree with BBAD. She's specifically told you that she's having mood swings and hungry all the time? 1. It sounds like she's LOOKING for symptoms. Of course theyre gonna be there if you look for them. If you look hard enough you could cause some of them, especially the mood swings. 2. getting hungry during pregnancy doesn't actually start until a couple months in because her body is feeding something else....if she's only a month or so pregnant, she wouldn't be THAT hungry and if she is, it's because, again, she's looking for it. That's my perspective from what you've said.
Has she even missed her period yet, btw? Don't even worry until she has. Even then, make sure she takes a test WITH YOU THERE. Can't make those things lie.
Thank you guys. I appreciate your thoughts. Never been this scared before in my life. And I'm holding back on sex for awhile. This is too much of a trip for me. But I don't wanna dismiss it so any more thoughts would be great
She IS trying to trap you. (She could possbily be pregnant though) Ask her when her next period is supposed to be. Buy her a FirstResponse. Have her take it with you there (you don't have to be in the bathroom). Tell her if she is pregnant, you want a paternity test. Don't believe her if she says you're the only one. Be as big of a dick as you can about it.
She hasn't said anything about missing it. But I know she'll wonder why Im asking if I were to bring it up so I really dont see any point in asking, until she does. If she does. This girl is like that.
kudos to you for keeping it on your mind. If it makes you feel any better, I've only used something with 3 of the 8 guys i've slept with and never got pregnant. I definitely don't recommend it just for the purpose of being responsible and I do now, but the possibility of her being pregnant is quite slim since you didn't finish. It's there, but slim. Just trying to ease your mind a bit.
