Ok so i have annoyed some of you with questions about my ex...as i was really confused whether she wanted me back. This being my first love...i am learning as i'm going. So today....i went and picked her up...we stopped at a local gay club and had a couple drinks...then went to the mall...so she could buy her g/f a gift for Easter....then i took her back home. Through this time we spent today...she put her hand on my leg several times...gave me the look here and there...i felt her undoubtedly flirting with me...it was very hot...and now i feel like we are just starting over again...starting an affair. She will never leave her lover for me...and i have never pushed the issue. Even so...my plans now are to settle...and hold onto her any way i can. So..i guess my question is....how many of you played the fool..and held onto someone as long as you could even if they were with someone else..and you knew you could never fully be together? Or...am i the only one THIS foolish? I should add that....i love her more than anything in the world and just seeing her and talking to her makes me happy.. there is no other woman..that can get my attention. I'm really curious if any of you have been in similar situations because you didn't want to let someone go. Any reponses appreciated.
Just my opinion, but don't make your self so readily available. Don't waste your time on someone who only gives you a small part of themselves. Find someone who thinks more of you than that. Think more of yourself than that.
