Until you tried it for yourself, you didn't realize how cool it was

There have been many different roads, down the sexual highway. There are things I have tried , almost reluctantly, that I now enjoy regularly. From anal exploration, to immersing myself in my own creampies and eating every delicious drop, to Bi experiences. Having a partner, who was never as uptight as I was, helped me to open up and enjoy, rather than balk at the idea.
What have you ventured into?

 

My present wife got me into the joys of anal play that eventually lead to anal sex having fingered me during blowjobs, used a vibrator in me during blowjobs which led her to start pegging me while jerking me off. It was fabulous, I had no idea how joyous anal play was until she enticed me down that path of mind-blowing orgasms. She didn't stop there. Being I have a long term "suck-bud" whom she's interacted with as well she convinced me to experience a real cock fucking me in the ass. I'd been mutually sucking cock with other married guys for almost two decades as well as being other married guys secret cocksucker and enjoying every moment and what it provided for me. But once I felt that first cock entering into my ass as she helped guide it into me, I was unknowing of the sensations it was going to provide. I was instantly hooked on receiving anal sex and wished I had experienced decades earlier. I could have never done it without her guidance along the entire way that led up to my first experience and have only received anal sex with her present since. She opened up not just my world of pleasure but also my ass...lol. I never thought I would have experienced it and enjoy it as much as I do.

My first wife of 25 years was also into anal sex, I pounded her tight sexy ass a couple thousand times during our marriage. I've evolved into the very same anal slut she was and am not ashamed of it one damn bit. My present wife will not receive anal, and I respect that, but I have mentioned to my wife "If only my ex-wife could see what I'm enjoying now". I know I've sucked the cocks of more men than her and my present wife combined as it does provide me the most pleasure having acquired the oral skills I've acquired over the past couple of decades and blowjobs can be provided just about anywhere but getting fucked in the ass is something I've kept to one man and only within the presence of my current wife or his wife on those times he fucks her and I in the ass during a three some or four some.

 

Im not ashamed to admit it either. It was a wonderful woman who let me down the anal highway. It's not for my wife, but she never had a problem with allowing me the pleasure of anal/prostate fun. I always looked at things with an open mind and Then, made my decision to like it or not. Hey, Im a slut and I would do or try anything at least once. If I get to have fantastic orgasmic experiences along the way, its a Win/Win. While the Bi interactions have subsidded for now, my wife has been making up for it with toys.

 

My wife and I have two dildoes, 7 inch thin one we bought first, and a 8 inch thick ballsy one with suction pad They were bought specifically to go into my ass many years ago. It was a good feeling to abandon my inhibitions and have her work the thin one up me. She was surprised I found it pleasurable. She won't use one at all in either orifice. She was amazed when she could put the big boy up me ll the way and I just loved it. She went off all sex years ago, but she knows I want it, and that I haven't had a suck buddy for a decade or more, she reluctantly agrees in principle to play around now but has vaginismus. I explained, if I can't get into her, I'd like her to do me like she used to. She says she wants to use the dildoes on me again but also she's tired and has been sick off and on so we haven't done it. I have a vaginal douche I use for my butt. I've prepared myself to take it a couple of times only for it to not go ahead, or for her to pull me to climax then walk out and get into housework. Why I am so patient with this woman, I don't know. If she wasn't so good in other areas, and didn't need care, I'd be out of here. I definitely want to have a suck-and-pull buddy again.

 

I always fantasized about anal sex with a guy, and enjoyed gay porn with fucking. But every time I went out to a bathhouse, gay sex club, etc., when I was naked with a guy, I lost all desire for that. Until I didn't.

I don't know whether it was the particular guy (a very cute 22-year-old twink) or circumstances in my life, but that first time I went mad with desire for a guy's ass in real life changed everything for me. Putting my tongue and fingers into his perfect hole was beyond magnificent, but when I started playing with his hole opening with my cockhead, something clicked inside of me that just knew this was the coolest thing ever. When I finally inserted my cock into this young guy's ass, I felt not only the deepest sexual connection I've ever felt with another man, but a connection to my true self deep within me. Connecting with the gay side of myself and my bisexuality like never before was like touching the face of God. I was overjoyed into tears, and then made love to his ass like there was no tomorrow, with a hunger equal to the insatiable one that I had tonguefucking his asshole for more than an hour beforehand. I was 51 and making up for a lifetime of repressing these fully open gay desires.

For 21 years it was only oral sex with guys, always anonymously. After that night and in the 9 years since it has been everything with guys, including gay friendship, in only each other's homes, nothing anonymously anymore, and finally this year, even romantic feelings for guys (plural!). I'm still attracted to women, but now I only have interest in sex and love with men alone. For me now, socializing with gay men, having friendships with gay men, and having sex (and perhaps more someday) with gay men is the coolest thing in the world, and where I feel happiest.

And the fact that it was a guy's very hot manhole that led to all of this is pretty damn cool. I know most bi guys are just interested in the cock. But if a guy's bum ever clicks with you, watch out, because the union of your cock and his male asshole, or vice a versa, could very well blow up your world.