Unsure about what to do

I have a friend who's way ahead of me in terms of sex, relationships, and drugs. I've only known her for about a month, but I'm starting to get really interested in her (in part because of her good looks, and in part because I see that she is going through a similar situation to me, in terms of her relationship with her parents. I really want to get to know her better, and get closer to her, but I have a feeling it will be difficult, because she A. knows a lot of people, and B. is always smoking and snorting, so she may not want to talk about anything upsetting. She came over to my place last weekend with her best friend to smoke. I want to find out if she actually enjoys spending time with me.

 

i say fuck 'er. Coke heads aren't the best friends to have.

 

I say fuck er too. Kick her out after though.


But seriously, if you are a teenager and she is going through parental issues and doing drugs, you might have a fucked up girl on your hands if you get in too deep. You may find that you were better off before knowing her lol. Bad girls are attractive though, but I have no idea about your age so I am not going to really give you any advice, sorry.

 

and then of course, if you DID manage to have some wonderful open discussions with her leaving her crying on your sholder and saying she loves you.. shed never actually want a relationship with you other than 'a great friend'

 

wise words man

i'd say still get to know her though.

 

she just needs a friend, but dude dont fuck around with people that are unstable like that, like cesarwild said u might get in too deep. and i bet shes just coming over to smoke with u and thats it, just because you have herb she wants to be your friend now, if she wants to come over say that you dont have any bud, but offer to come over anyway and see what she says

 

good advice 40oz and chronic. Because like you said you want to get to know her but if shes just using you for a smoke up thats lame, so test the water and see if she still wants to hang out with you when you dont have any thing to do but sit around and talk. and you'll be able to tell if she really wants to hang out or if she doesnt wanna just by the tone of her voice and way if she hangs out with you and you have nothin to do but talk then you can get down to all the issues you two have in common lol

 

Yea man, thats a pretty good idea.
Hope it works out.
Peace

 

I dno. If you're a teen, and i assume you are since you seem to be relatively new at the whole girl stuff, I wouldn't get involved. It's been said before, cokeheads in general aren't the best girlfriends... Find a nice cute girl whose up for a little smokey now and then.

 

^ exactly

 

I say take her friend.. if she was hot

 

Who needs a girlfriend when you have your best girl MJ?

 

an eighth, a bottle of lube and a right hand, who needs chicks right?

 

That's why you draw the line before the discussion gets that open, or you will be fucked in exactly the way that you predict. You've got to be an arrogant piece of shit to let chics know who's the boss (most of the time haha)

I guess I'll offer some advice. Find a cute chic with a fat ass and a bush who likes to be naked. The bush is extra important lol. Make sure she smokes mad blunts, and please please DOUBLE CHECK that she can roll them. It will come in handy. Sexual appetite must be equal to or greater than your own. Make sure she listens to heady music, not that g unit bullshit. There's my advice, IDK how practical it is to you though lol.

 

sounds practical.

 

Why do we men always fall for the head cases?

 

dude i have been friends with alot of girls with problems like that. for instance my friend found her brother after he shot himself in the head and i developed feelings for her. TALKING ABOUT THE SUBJECT IS WHAT FUCKED ME OVER!!! if u talk to her tell her your always there for her but dont ever get too deep into the convo tell her youve never been there so you dont know what to say but youll be there always to get her mind off the subject...................my philosephy with women is when you're buddies with a girl you give her advice, but when you want to be with her dont be a stupid fuckin doctor phil, listin but dont contribute your two cents.

in your situation i would say call her up one day and ask if she just wants to chill make sure she knows u dont have anything but yourself to offer her (this way you rid yourselfe of gold diggers and weed scavengers) and if she comes just watch a movie with her and play it by ear but dontbring up drugs or her parents, better yet best just not talk about her family at all until like the 3rd or 4th real date.

hope i could help, troubled women are my forte!!!!

(and for all you fucks who think my advice isnt valid cuz im 17 yall dont know shit about the toatally fucked up chiks that i have been accociated with)

ps. evertime ive got involved with a headcase i've been fucked in the end, my advice will work if you want to but i wouldnt reccomend it!!

 

the blue skittle some of that shit really makes sense to me lol.

 

I second that!

 

what about checking to see if shes just hanging off your drugs, and then if she IS, you know that she wants to have sex with you. you know why? because if she had sex with you, youd prolly give her plenty of drugs ahah