I live with a friend and his wife. I pay them and live in a room of their house, but we're friends so we do stuff together. Last night we were drinking and watching a movie. Afterwards my friend's wife suggests (with my friend right there) that it might be fun for me to get off with her. I was a little tipsy and horny so I agreed. We didn't really have sex but I did end up cumming. It was a cool experience but like, today everything's been business as usual. Friend and his wife are just acting like nothing happened. Is it okay to like, bring it up and ask what that was about? I'm not a big sex person in general and this is sorta mind blowing right now.
I mean if everyone was drunk they probably don't even remember it. Perhaps they were just testing the waters and are waiting for another time to try again. I wouldn't bring it up until they say something about it.
Probably wouldn't bring it up or for asking what it was all about, per say, but might flirt with her some and for letting her know, in some way, that I'm interested in a repeat performance and more.
Weird that they seem to ignore what happened. After our first threesome we didn't stop talking about it and repeating it
The three of us were on the sofa and she was in the middle. She gave me a handjob. My friend stayed over on his side of the sofa but I think was fingering her while she was jacking me off.
IMHO, this was not considered a threesome. The wife sitting between you and her husband jacked you off while he fingered her pussy (if I understand the story correctly). Once you came the party broke up and all went . . . ? A threesome is really all three having full sex with each other or at least one or both male participants having intercourse with the female. I would try to get them to open up about what took place before much time passes. I know it bothers you because you came here for advice. No comment of the previous activity might mean they are both unsure of your or their feelings about what happened. Have a meeting with the both of them to discuss the situation. Mention that you enjoyed her advances. Also make it known your feelings about the situation and be sensitive to theirs. Would you be open to a deeper relationship if he and she would be comfortable with it? If so let them know. Together they may be feeling apprehensive about what happened after the alcohol wore off. Let them make the decision to invite you for more or let it lie. You might find they feel they made a mistake by her advances and may want you to drop the whole thing. But you do need to know where they are at on this.
Maybe they were auditioning you for a threesome. Checking out your equipment, how you reacted. Try thanking her for the hand job to see how she reacts.
I hinted at it this morning at breakfast. My friend asked me if I liked it. I told him it was unexpected but enjoyable. They offered to do a bit more tonight once we're done working. I'm really excited and nervous. It sounds like my friend is into sharing his wife more than like doing a threesum. If that makes sense?
Well certainly it makes sense, with different strokes, for different folks. Could be, he's like so many and for just wanting to watch. Maybe for taking sloppy seconds or for eating her out, afterwards. Either in your presence or for afterwards in private. Just play it out for all it's worth and for keeping us informed, since inquiring and curious minds, wish to know........
It look like they made the decision to invite you for more. There are two directions to go. Well, maybe three but I doubt you would select option three and turn them down. Option one is as suggested he may be wanting to share her with you. It is a form of cuckoldry and if you were to have sex with his wife he would be a cuckold by definition. Option two is they invite you to join both of them sexually. Then you would have to choose the pattern of the threesome. Male Male Female or Male Female Male. MMF is expected that the men have interaction with each other as well as the woman. MFM is where the men don't interact with each other but team up to please the woman. I doubt MMF is on the table based on what has happened so far but take it slowly. Watch your emotions as well as the emotions of your partners. If he wants to watch then concentrate on her pleasure. If he wants to participate make sure he gets to. You might let him lead the way how ever this plays out.
My friend asked if I wanted to "hang out a bit" before dinner. I went up to their room and his wife announced she wanted to give me head. Sounded good to me but then I got creeped out by my friend being there. I chickened out and said I just wanted to make out. He and I were totally clothed but she was topless. Got to kiss her a bit and suck on her tits but I kinda lost the drive. It didn't really go anywhere this time. They didn't really react. Things wound down and we all went downstairs.
Seriously and did anyone offer to take your temperature, as there is a virus going around you know? Geeeeeezzzzzhhhhhh!
Haha, no. We talked about it and I said sorry. They offered to try again whenever I want. Does anyone else feel a little weird being watched? I don't usually take my erect cock out in front of my male friends. Can't say I'm thrilled to change at the gym either but I tell myself they're probably not looking. Well I know damn well he's going to look.
You might have blown your opportunity. They might have talked this over. Some couples allow each other to play alone, others want it to be together. I had several mfm where I was the extra man. Most were spur of the moment. Things just started happening. Yes! I felt very nervous, not knowing what his reaction might be. I even took the attitude to hurry things, before someone changes their mind. Which was wrong I should have been making sure she enjoyed it. Which I did later on. The first time I shared my girlfriend. We talked it over, the guys wanted to make sure, I never had a problem with it. The first time they were alone, but when the three of us got together. I realized how much she was the center of attention, and it was all about her. The guy made it a point to complement her on her body, her looks, things that make a woman feel good. He even thanked me in a round about way. So my advise would be to talk it over, with both of them. After all you have nothing to lose, you get all the rewards. I didn't see that when I was the extra man. I tried to make up for it later.
I get it, I do, but don't let an opportunity slip by, that you'll be cussing yourself for, later in life. Ask if you can have her alone for a session or two, so to become more comfortable, with them. He'll understand and will most likely accommodate you and your wishes, since they're wanting this, more than you do.