idk if anyone else feels the same way i do, but by far one of my biggest kinks/turn ons is underwear! seeing my boyfriend in a pair of tight fitting undies gets me extremely horny and i was wondering how many of y'all feel the same way? obviously pretty much anyone with sexual urges will find someone's near naked body attractive in underwear, but for me it's something that enhances pleasure greatly both on it's own and combined with other aspects of sex. i find the slight smell of someone's body on them very appealing as well as grinding against each other in underwear and i'm sure plenty of other stuff. plz tell me i'm not alone in this i guess in the grand scheme of things as far as kinks and fetishes go undies are pretty vanilla but idc i like it dammit qwq
A couple years ago, seeing women in their underwear became much much more arousing than it had been and -- as you put it -- felt like something well beyond the general excitement of seeing someone scantily clad. I even found favorite cuts/styles (hiphuggers and bikini briefs and the ones with big label waist bands.) Flash forward to a few months ago. Even though I liked seeing them on women. Not loose panties. I decided I wanted to buy a pair just to have around and touch and look at. As soon as I got home from buying a few pairs, for whatever reason, I thought I'd put them on even though that wasn't the intention. The moment those soft cotton briefs slid into place I realized within a decimal of a second that my lifelong frustration over having been anatomically male was not something I could continue brushing off as "this is a real thing for me but as long as I'm not interested in transitioning, I'm just plain ol' cis. A crumby version of cis. But cis nonetheless." Once I did that, I realized the sexual interest in seeing women in their underwear along with so many other sexual stuff I'd been exploring further was about (or at least also about) wanting to immerse myself in thoughts of experiencing various things as a woman would experience them. So: Thanks sudden sexual interest in seeing women in their underwear! You forced me commit to my gender queerness. Also, still find it arousing too. Only thing I cannot stand are thongs. I dated a woman last year who wore thongs exclusively and it was SO hard to suppress the urge to ask her to wear something else.
