UGH! how frustrating

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Dave_techie, Feb 15, 2009.

  1. Dave_techie

    Dave_techie I call Sheniangans

    If you KNOW I have a history of answering questions in a tactless, brutally honest way, why would you ask me if you did not want a tactless brutally honest answer?

    And why do people never want a tactless brutally honest answer?

    what is this rainbows and lollipops self delusion bullshit.
     
  2. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

    This is about the pic of my penis isn't it?

    I cried for a week after that...
     
  3. Dave_techie

    Dave_techie I call Sheniangans

    actually, it's about my sibling, but, it happens sufficicntly often that I felt like an open thread format was appropriate.
     
  4. zilla939

    zilla939 Thought Police Lifetime Supporter

    yeah, i am the same way. i just don't sugar coat shit. my mother does that. i am not my mother.
     
  5. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

    Yeah I make fun of everything but when I have to be serious, I'm serious. So when people ask me a question and I give them an honest response they say "Ha. Funny. No really..."

    Like the boy who cried wolf, kinda sorta. All part of the wonderfulness of me I guess.
     
  6. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    I suffer the same thing, but i have been trying to keep my mind on my mouth so to speak. That is to think before i speak and not be quite so impolite.

    I don't think it is a matter of kindness when being polite, in all honesty it can be quite manipulative, but i find my life is much nicer being polite.
     
  7. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

    That's exactly how I feel with some of the losers on here who reply to me and say something like "I've read your other posts and know how you are and blah blah blah" because if you've read my posts and you KNOW that I've a history of being brutal, then expect it, don't bitch and moan like it's something I'm unaware of. :rolleyes:
     
  8. Autentique

    Autentique wonderfabulastic

    Im like that, but only with people I really care about. I usually prepare them by asking them if they want to know what I really think.
     
  9. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

    That's a false duality. Honest does not mean brutal, though it can be hard to accept. They are not synonymous.
     
  10. Dave_techie

    Dave_techie I call Sheniangans

    no, but to state that one is typically brutally honest is to suggest that when brutality is required, there is not hesitation in it's offering.

    I expect better of your rhetoric.
     
  11. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

    I can't do it, be brutally honest that is. Constructive crit is where its at man. :)
     
  12. hippiehillbilly

    hippiehillbilly the old asshole

    usually when someone busts out crying after we answer their question we respond with a simple statement.

    "Dont ask what you dont want to know."

    generally after a few times they think before they ask after that..

    to often people ask questions not wanting a real answer,they only want validation and justification for their feelings and actions.,and quite frankly,
    "homie dont play that"
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  13. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

    i don't get it, either. crying over a person's opinion has never made sense to me.
     
  14. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear voice of sexy

    show us your tits!


    you do know that's how we answer all questions here in rt...
     
  15. Unknown American

    Unknown American Rogue Capitalist

    Being brutally honest is a beautiful thing.

    If you piss them off, that's great, you no longer have to deal with them.
     

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