well my first question is;; is it bad 2 have too much discharge. cuz it comes out even when im not doing nething [playing, etc] i just dno if its normal or not... second;; me & my bf have been wanting sex. so far, it's not been happening. we've tried fingering and stuff and it duznt seem 2 be working 2 well. it hurts rly bad 2 and idk how it would feel if it would be torn. can anybody give me some advice on first times..?
Truthfully, the first time is going to hurt. I don't think there's any way around that fact. I don't know any women who have said otherwise and even though I was stoned out of my mind, having sex for the first time was a buzz kill b/c of the pain. Not trying to scare you, but just be prepared. If I could do it over again, I would have been on Oxycotin. But I'm really glad that it is a distant memory... And the discharge issue- don't worry unless it has the consistency of cottage cheese, clumpy, changes colors, or you get irritated. These are signs of infection, but nothing too serious. Discharge is a normal way of you body cleaning itself out. Don't douche-this can cause yeast infections and even PID, which can cause infertility. Peace and love
if its hurting you really badly then maybe you arent ready. Try fingering yourself in your own time to become more prepared
When I was 15 I hooked up with a 15 year old. It looked like it hurt her. The good thing is a 15 year old kid probably will cum in under a minute, so it will be over pretty quickly. It gets better. Wait till he nails you in the brown eye.
