Turned On To Tell Someone You Are Bi

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by John1234567, Aug 2, 2016.

  1. John1234567

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    The first person i told was a girl i grew up fucking. I wanted her to share her stories, some she was too shy to share about being with girls. Once i told her my experiences, she opened up about hers. Kind of a thrill to shock people teling them you are bi or talking about sex in general. Once i started doing real gay sex,i hated it at first and was sort of forced to do most of it. Mostly due to being young and not accepting my sexuality. Talking about my experiences helps me deal and turns me on thinking about it even thoughit was a huge source of shame growing up.
     
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  2. luv2bottom

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    I told an old girl friend that I was bi. She found it very interesting and the 2 of us became very aroused while we shared stories of our sexual adventures. As we talked I asked her if she would ever be interested in joining me with some of my bi friends as myself and 3 others usually met every Saturday or Sunday morning. She said it sounded like fun but wanted to think it over a bit. Within 2 days she got back to me and wanted me to include her in our next get together. She worked the 11 to 7 shift so we picked her up that Sunday morning and headed to our friends house. She was a little nervous at 1st but as we guys started to take our clothes off she followed without hesitation. I started to suck my friend and pulled away and offered it to her and the 4 of us were off and running. Telling this old gf of mine that I was bi turned out to be very beneficial to all of us
     
  3. John1234567

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    Thats awesome. I dont know why i never shared my next door neighbor. She was a big slut but i think at the time i was selfish and kind of wanted her for myself. I remember another gf offered her friend andi actually said no because it was early in the relationship and not interested. I actually had several opprotunies to have 3somes but never followed through.
     
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    it really turned me on telling my stories to my exwife. I could tell it made her hot and she wanted to hear more. My wife now it also felt good to tell although not as enthused about it I get turned on telling her the details
     
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    i do like to talk about my bi sexuality, but i've never told anyone i actually know in person. only people i meet online. i'd love to tell my wife, but i know this wouldn't go down well at all...
     
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  6. John1234567

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    My wife has isses after i told her but its better she kniws
     
  7. averageguy6

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    The only one I have ever told is my wife. It turned us both on big time. back then. Now she wants to here all about it when ever I have oral with a guy.
     
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    It was naughty for me to tell a few people that i grew up with that i was sexually involved with another guy we grew up with. Since we are no longer friends, i have no loyalty to keep this secret and it is a relief to tell someone
     
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    I've never told anyone but frankly the idea turns me on. Kind of like being naked in a public place, there's just something to be said for letting it all hang out there.
     
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    A female friend of mine is really into knowing about my bi sex life. We swap photos, and explicit details though we have never had sex with each other. I get very turned on knowing she enjoys the relationship we have and the information I provide. She watches gay porn and loves seeing images of real bi on bi man sex.
     
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    It's a weird feeling holding on to secrets you would like to share but know it could be harmful if you tell them. I'm straight but really wanted to tell someone that I had engaged in sex with another male but decided it would never be a good idea.

    I let it slip though one night when I was drunk to a female friend. She was happy to share my secret. It felt like such a huge relief to not be carrying it around on my own, and her reaction made me feel less guilty. I haven't told anyone since, but I get so turned on at the idea of telling one of my male friends what i've done. It would be cool if it led to them sharing a secret too, or perhaps a little action. One day...
     
  12. John1234567

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    Well the bi girls i told got a kick out of my confessions. The gay guys too. My wife not so much. Was trying to get her to understand but it just made me sound like i needed something she can't give me. Perhaps why i post so much here. Been a very long time since I have been with a man and the longest i have been monogomous.
     
  13. averageguy6

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    As I said above my wife knows I'm oral bi. I have been thinking about telling my daughter, because she has told us she is bi.
     

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