it's on the tip of my tongue, but I can't think of her name or any movies she has been in! I thought it was Laura Linney, but it isn't..though she looks like her.. she's an older white woman maybe in her 50's, blonde, very thin, and pale..calm and laid back demeanor in the characters she plays...and bed room eyes? I can't figure out her name! and now it's bugging me... help?