I've made a few unsuccessful attempts at prostate stimulation. I don't like to do it myself for many reasons, one being the awkward angle of reaching back there. I want to involve my wife in it, because that sounds much hotter. But how do we do it? She has tried reaching into me with a rubber glove on, heavily lubed, but her finger doesn't get in very far. That may have something to do with the fact that I can't relax those muscles very much yet. I want us to experiment by having her put in an object that could slide in. What could that be? We don't own a dildo right now and don't want to get one yet, because we have four young children, and were one of them to find it, the explanation would be so very awkward. I've expressed interest in her pegging me, so we'll probably get a strap-on at some point. But for now, we need more answers. What should we use to penetrate me? And what is the best angle for stimulation and possible orgasm? Is there a diagram of some sort that could help us see how to hit on it?
Mine is easily within a fingers length. All I need is my middle finger all the way in and making a "come here" movement. For me, when she's doing it, the best way is on my back so I can completely relax my body and mind. Just one finger massaging back and forth is enough to make me blow twice as much and in a quarter of the normal time. But I definitely prefer toys.
