Trust her on birth control?

I just met a girl today and she told me she was on birth control. We already had sex and she wanted me to not use a condom but I insisted. Should I trust someone the 1st time meeting them they are on brith control? Would you?

 

Well, my first instinct would be a big fat NO. Besides, even if she is on BC, if you just met her (or even if you'd known her for a while) there's no way to know for sure if she's clean. Pregnancy isn't the only consequence of sex.

 

ever heard of stds? i would never fuck someone without a condom until i know that theyve been tested, and i fully trust them

 

If she met you today, and she already wanted unprotected sex, then there is a good chance she has been having unprotected sex with other peoples. Additionally, it shows a lack of concern for her general health, which means shes not as likely to be STD tested or diligent about her birth control.

Glove up before you love up.

 

thanks for your opinions. She showed me a paper yesturday showing she is clean. So, not worry about stdds

 

Like they said. I'd worry. Photoshop does exist, and if she insists there is something wrong.

There isn't that much of a difference if feeling if you use or don't use a condom. And if she just met you and started asking you to do it without a condom I'd be worried and would have doubts of even kissing her. She might have herpes of all you know.

 

am i seriously the only one who thinks its fucking ridiculous that someone is fucking someone, when they cant trust them to be taking bc when thney say they are, or that thye are clean when they say the are? strange, strange world

 

Nope, not the only one. If you can't trust them, why are you havin sex w/ them? I don't get it either...

 

maybe hes despret

 

I agree Allonym and SugarStash... If you can't trust someone, you probably shoulldn't be shagging them. Just a thought...

 

like i said before...unless hes despret

 

use a condom

:bat:

 

or not, just take birth control, they are more effective, and a less of a hasleunk: :drummer:

 

Birth control is more effective?

Well it doesn’t keep you from getting AIDs and other humiliating and life threatening STDs… You guys go and get herpes and God knows what else from these sluts then see how hard it is to find a decent girl one day.

A girl that has sex with you the first day you meet has probably done the same thing before with many other guys and if she doesn’t want you to use a condom after knowing you for one day then she is seriously disturbed. And keep in mind that there are several STD’s that might not have symptoms for one partner so then there would be no way of knowing they had anything. And even if a doctor has tested her you best believe doc didn’t test for every single thing out there…

 

yes... i was just making a point. Birth control is about 8.5% more effective more than condoms..

 

i cant believe my thread is still going. I figured it would have stopped at: she is a slut and use a condom or else you'll get an std!

 

haha, nope. this is a good topic. I wonder why scientists cant make a pill for guys to just make them infertle for like a day or 2. Like birth control for men. THeres nothing femenen about it, its just the exact thing of it for women. I mean, if they can figure out a way to do it for women, why not men??? The only way that i would use a condom anymore after that, would be if we both forgot to take our pills that day. It nearly impossible for someone to get pregnated if a man uses a condom, AND for the female to be using birth control. BUT, condoms are much less effective, so i just say, take the damn pill, and dont bitch, cause it will pleasure both the man and women. For only a small price of taking a pill. Rather than having us guys have to use condoms that desencitizes us, and makes 11% of men fake orgasms because they cant cum, get tired, and want to quit.

so ladies please... just take the pill, you'll be more pleased, and so will we..

 

You're overlooking some of the more serious side effects of the Pill. Not every woman can use birth control, and for many it causes depression and mood swings.

So, what's the best solution then? Probably RISUG, but it's still undergoing clinical trials...

 

both condoms and the pill are around 99% effective when used correctly, the main issue arrises when people dont use em right. and they are working on a male contraceptive pill, if i remember right its in the human-testing stages in india somewhers. a few more years and it should be on the market, hopefully

also, its easier to create hormonal contracpetion for women because of how our cycle works. essentially the pill makes the body believe that it is permanently in a state of infertility (well, permanently as in as long as theyre on the pill). men are always ready to make sperm

 

ya, i guess i overlooked. but i have to say that we both had good facts.