We live in a palpably puritan-minded society. Engrained within us is some sense that pleasure is wrong, and usually undeserved. Sex is to be avoided, and those who express their sexuality to be mistrusted. It offends most people's sense of fairness that such a small sliver of the population is equipped for great hookups. Attractive girls who wear miniskirts and guys who wear tank tops are douchebags. This fact is non negotiable. This fact is not supportable. The lack of emphasis on a partner's intelligence is an issue. But one that really only applies to parents having children. Bigger tits, asses, muscles, cocks are almost always better. It's widely perceived that sexual experience hurts your future marriage. Please take me up on, or add to any of these statements.
Everyone has to be the same. Everyone has to move in a lockstep. Everyone has to be willfully ignorant and bothersome. They see us as a threat.
Do you guys think, assuming you will one day settle down, having a lot of experience with several partners will diminish the quality of your long term monogamous relationship?
I had a lot of sexual partners in my younger years. I got married and stayed monogamous for a very long time (I no longer am). I have no desire to ever get married again.
