#1 i'm 35 year old man and have never had sex with a woman. - i dont drink and i guess i get too nerevous - I have raised sabotaging a relationship to an art. the sad thing is i really want a relationship.. #2 I have screwed around with men. - i'm actually not gay and gay sex just doesnt appeal to me. - it's much easier to have sex with a man than a woman.. "women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place" #3 I cheated with my friend, who is gay, and has a partner. - they are both my friends. - i was also dating a girl at the time. maybe pathetic.. but all true
That's quite a confession, Have you ever spoken to a professional about any of this? What's the rest of your life like?
Trust me just because women don't want sex 24/7 like most men between 15-40 doesn't mean they need any more then a reason then an orgasm to have it.
your not meeting the right women. we love sex just as much as men do. it just isnt socialy aceptable and therefore we don't talk about it or endulge in it as much as men because we then in turn get called sluts. me presonally i dont care. if that what i want to do and i know i will nt regret it in the morning then fuck it. try match.com if you honestly think you cannot meet anyone on your own. and then get on that comercial =)
I agree with astaff. We also like sex as you do. Try going out more, comunicating with more females, be relaxed... I'm sure there is some lady out there, waiting for you
let see. spoke to professional.. hum.. as professional do you mean therapist or hooker? yea spoke to professional that wanted to focus on all the wrong things.. the amount of bad therapists out there is amazing.. rest of my life is pretty sad right now.. i had 2 surgeries this year.. both major but recoverable.. prior to that.. i am hyperfocused on career.. yea that socially acceptable thing is a kicker.. people are taught that women dont like sex.. and then there is that performance anxiety to get her to orgasm... most women i know say they fake it.. whats the point then.. hey women is there any enjoyment without orgasm?? whats the point of faking it??
Wow im 20 and i am over that sort of stuff, im not trying to be cruel just honest. I think some one taught you women don't like sex, not people in general, i figured out girls my age were horny when i was 16. What i am trying to say is you've wasted the last 20 years of your life in regards to romantic relationships because you've been confused and afraid... You've fucked a man because basicaly you don't want to so there is no fear of failure... now if you could remove your fear of women imagine how much better the next 20 years could be??
YES , there is enjoyment in sex WITHOUT getting off....theres the touching and kissing and sharing....the flesh on flesh sensation. I dont go into bed with someone EXPECTING to get off...that takes all the pleasure out of it. If it happens it happens , and if it doesnt , its no big deal. I think either you THINK females seel the way you have said , or you are just not meeting the right ones. Good luck baby....dont give up. Find yourself a sweet chick and just PLAY !
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