Trouble With Boner

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by poring88, Sep 4, 2010.

  1. poring88

    poring88 Member

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    Hmm, My problem is : When i'm with my girlfriend, i have boners and my penis is above average .. i think . And it happen all the time. If we Kiss, If we Hug or Whatever i have boners and i hide my penis all the time because i don't want her to see it right now.
    i Want to know if i should talk too her about the situation or i Don't know.. T_ T
     
  2. deleted

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    why should you hide it??
     
  3. SublimeHippieChild

    SublimeHippieChild Member

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    From what I'm told, its just another chemical reaction to emotional stimulation. Look at it as a good thing. You'd get pissed if you tried to turn on your computer and it didn't work.... right? So be glad the thing works..... :) And well if you are above average(which I have seen above average) then sorry dude you pitch a tent! :) Good luck
     
  4. natural philosophy

    natural philosophy bitchass sexual chocolate

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    take some string and tie it to your leg
     
  5. poring88

    poring88 Member

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    Loll :p
    But the Problem is.
    i Never had sex before or whatever.
    And i Dont know if my girlfriend would be embarassed if she see it or if i told her that i have boners all the times :S
     
  6. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    dude,,you are lucky it only happens with your girlfriend..lol..i remember being on the bus standing..having to hold on with one hand and try and hide my boner with the other...in church..pop a boner...school...boner....school nurse,,,huge hard on....and thats just yesterday....its just a normal part of growing up and a quik fix is to go to the bathroom and rub one out....good luck next time you are in church:D
     
  7. poring88

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    haha :p
    But it does'nt help mee :)
    i Want to know if i Should tell her that it Happen all the timee :O
    Because im tired to try to hide it xD
    But im scared she fell ambarassed :O
     
  8. High Plaines Drifter

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    Duct tape is your friend. If I don't have tape I'll just put out a cigarette on the tip, that makes it go away real quick like.
     
  9. poring88

    poring88 Member

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    Seriously ? :(
     
  10. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    Tell her it's a great place to hang her handbag when you're out and about, she'll love you and your boner forever.
     
  11. poring88

    poring88 Member

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    Haha Omgg T _T
    It Doesn't even repond to my Question xD
     
  12. GangGang

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    Fuck her. I got less horny all the time when I finally got laid. :D Or yeah just beat it in the bathroom that works too :)
     
  13. poring88

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    But where are not in the state of fucking right now :p
    Soo i Want to Know, Should i tell her i have boners all the time ?
     
  14. Devan Rojek

    Devan Rojek Senior Member

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    I understand you have been deeply concerned about your erection being noticeable in front of your girlfriend, but... I'm sorry, but I am still unable to see the problem behind it.

    First of all, I've always been under the impression that girls found their boyfriends' erections to be flattering. I could sort of see it being a problem if you guys were totally conservative, old-fashioned christian, or into some kind of really strict religion, where any sign of anything sexual was regarded as being impure. This isn't the case though, is it? Or.....is it??

    Second, I personally think that you should tell her about your frequent erections. Why? Honestly, my first instinct is to reply with a "why not??" This is your girlfriend you're talking about. She will be dealing with your erections on a regular basis sooner or later anyway. Plus, if you are well-endowed in that department, I'm thinking trying to hide it just might make you appear that much more awkward. It is one thing to try to hide it in public, but when you're just alone with your girlfriend this sort of thing shouldn't be a problem.

    In fact, if she by any chance develops a problem with it, then I don't know if you'd be happy in this relationship in a long run. What you do not need is an ignorant girlfriend who can't even accept natural occurrences like erections. If you're in a relationship with someone, you should be able to have open discussions about anything. Or at least you work toward being about to talk about anything and everything.

    To speak of myself for a bit in case it may become of some help to you.... My own penis is small(which I proudly admit, lol) so I've never really had the embarrassment of people noticing my erections, but my girlfriends have always known. And I've never tried to hide it where doing so wasn't necessary. I've been friends with this girl for about half a year now, and I'm about to let her know how I feel about her. She and I have a very open, honest, and laid-back kind of friendship and I'd feel very comfortable talking to her about my erections if the topic ever came up. I've already told her my penis is small, and I've already told her I'm still a virgin at the age of 34. If I told her she'd be keeping me hard all the time when we were actually physically(she lives in another country) together, I am 100% certain she would be completely fine with it.

    Communication is the most important aspect of any relationship. If you and your girlfriend can't be open about this kind of stuff, then perhaps you guys should work on your communication skills before you do anything sexual together. Although, I really doubt she'd have a problem with it. I have yet to meet a girl who has such a negative view on erections.
     
  15. GangGang

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    Don't tell her, show her ;D seriously. Make a move dude she shouldn't care and if she does.. I dunno.. Fight with her about it.. I doubt she will dump you or something..
     
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    put a book in front of it...
     
  17. GangGang

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    Erry day! ;D
     
  18. ChrisFromScotland

    ChrisFromScotland Lang may yer lum reek

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    hahaha that was pretty hallarious,
     
  19. Fingermouse

    Fingermouse Helicase

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    You need to come to terms with the fact that you're male and you have a cock, therefore you will get erections rather often, especially around your girlfriend, and it's perfectly usual. If she has a problem with it she really needs to get over it too, or she wont get very far in life. If my boyfriend was all shy and worried every time he got a hardon I'd wonder wtf his problem was.
     
  20. loughman

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    Get married after 3 or 4 weeks you'll have no call for it
     
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