I titled this thread^^ because i have realized that males and females really don't perceive things in the same way. an example is this; males show they're feelings.. well most of them.. and females.. I've noticed don't do that very much. They try to hide it and let the male go through some agonizing pain of trying to figure it out.. so i just think, in a theoretical way of though, there is a sort of a gender miscommunication. has anybody slightly noticed this?
i think this title could be considered a transgender miscommunication, because everyone who read it thought you brought home a girl who didn't know why you were surprised when she pulled out her penis. but yeah, men and women often have different ways of communicating that are not usually compatible.
Some famous examples of transgender miscommunication in hip-hop songs: 'The suspense was makin' me sick/She took her panties down and the bitch had a dick!' (Eazy-E 'Nobody Move') So I took her to my crib/Everything went as well as planned But when she got undressed, it was a big ol' mess Sheena was a man (Tone Loc 'Funky Cold Medina)
Perhaps "Intergender Miscommunication" would have been a better way of putting it And yes it is rampant
You are never around to hear how they really talk when you are not around. Its all only stuff you've assumed, been told by other guys or what the chics have fed you. What if none of it is true. Just because you are a guy doesnt mean you have any idea what goes on in other guys heads
Slightly off topic but I want to find a cross dresser who does magic that I can manage and call her/him "Poof the Magic Drag Queen". C/S, Rev J
Both genders have to guess! I'm trying very hard to be open and provide clarity to those men that are in my life. Yet also realize it is often in how I behave and not necessarily in what I say. The reverse is true as well, and I look at good treatment toward me as indicative of their feelings even though they might not say it. The ultimate is to verbally express truthfully no matter how vulnerable it makes one feel. The second ultimate is to get the one opposite you (at the moment) to do the same.