Training your ass for deep penetration

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  1. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    Hello, I’ve been trying to train my body to accommodate larger penises if the opportunity presents itself. I have found both with real and with dildos that penetration stops between 7 and 8 inches . A dull ache that gets sharper if too much push. I’ve heard this is the sigmoid bend and that proper training can get around this. Does anyone have successful experience with this? Thank you!
     
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  2. LowHangers

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    All I know is that the first time my bud fucked my ass he managed to bury all of his 9 1/2" in my ass as he deposited his load inside. My wife was as impressed as I. She had been pegging me for several months before she talked him into fucking my ass.
     
  3. Scharff

    Scharff Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I have a friend who I used to have fun with but now she's moved far away. This was a question that was posted elsewhere a while ago and I asked her since she, later in life, got into anal with another girl. She can take 12" or more. My closest FWB regularly takes 10". For 12 inches, she had to practice a lot. And that dildo was average thickness. She found that a lot of lube and twisting it in different directions and rotating her hips as she took it eventually allowed it to get past that curve inside of her. One of her male friends who regularly did her suggested a dildo with a curved end. She said that worked a little better probably due to the curve. The sharp pressure was something she just had to get used to. The best results was from her being very horny and hungry for it back there so it was more than just practice. My friend who takes ten inches does it with me in her shower. No, I'm not back there....she says I'm too thick. But she slides onto a ten inch suction dildo on the shower wall and bends over to suck me. As I grow in her mouth I push into her throat and she slides her asshole onto the dildo. It goes all the way in and stays there while she wiggles on it and sucks cock. BUT, that one is long and thin. She can't do thick at all. We've tried. Just one stroke and she was done on me. But long and thin is great for her. Maybe start like that?
     
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  4. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    Thank you! When I was last in America, I did sneak home in my luggage two dildos, one was longer and a very soft rubber and the other one was called a 10 inch King Cock which is quite thick. I am with good warm up able to get the thick one just as far in as the skinny one, but the both stop at the bend. Maybe I try and find the curved one or a friend to help :)
     
  5. Scharff

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    I just asked Kelli to measure the width of the one she takes in the shower. She said it's not even an inch across and that's all the way down. The length is just under 11 inches to the suction so she probably takes 10 in her bum. It does take her a while to wiggle onto it but I keep pushing her back until she gets it in. She'll take a shorter but thicker one while she sucks me the first time but she really likes the long one. It stays on her shower wall all the time. She won't take my cock but she loves something in her bottom a lot.
     
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    I have the same problem with stiffer thick dildos but i tried a slinky ! Soft silicone plug about 14 inches long and managed to insert it all the way ! Took me about 1/2 hour of gentle probing and massaging my stomach but managed to get it all in !
     
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  7. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    Thank you for the advice!
     
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  8. oldguynurse

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    Frankly my dear, I really wouldn't try that. Some people may have been lucky, but you wouldn't hear from the ones who had a catastrophic medical event, would you? And anyway, it's the sphincter muscle and the part of the sigmoid adjacent to the vaginal nerves that have all the sensation.

    --- OGN
     
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  9. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    I have read about something like that might work from a previous commenter. I will talk to my clinic over here, things are more open over here when asking about such issues.
     
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    It's all about Practice and the right toy. The old hard white vibrator would go in easy enough, but didn't have depth capabilities My wife can bury her Manhandler Dildo beyond my inner sphincter all the way to the handle. Very Flexible and great for deep anal.
     
  11. TomofGa

    TomofGa Love my Wife

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    Yes mam, about 7-8 inches depending on position is about the max. The experience beyond that is exactly how you described. We are careful not to go past that and also focus more on the angle to rub against prostate more. My wife is a pro at this and she even says not go try to go past that. There are positions and methods where you can simulate it though. We've both taken on 10 plus inchers and satisfied them all with better positioning and methods. Work your body around while testing it out, also you legs and thigh squeeze. On our backs get go to deep, also bent over tables/counters. Doggy works somehow for us better though we love it the other ways only not the longer penises.
     
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    If it's in preparation to my visit, I'm flattered - but it won't be necessary....
     
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    An old toy that I enjoyed was the anal explorer. It had a small ball on the end and was very flexible. I would take it all the way to the base. The Manhandler dildo sword also went in to the handle The main thing was knowing your body and its functions. My wife couldn't believe I could take the whole thing, until we did it.
     
  14. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    Haha…that post was nearly a year ago! I got a long tapered very flexible dildo that helped me succeed and then just went larger and longer for quite some time. It think it is safe to say now that I can handle any length that a human male has to offer me!
     
  15. marcopolousa

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    Impressive
    And I'm glad for these guys as well, there is a chance for them to FINALLY try anal
     
  16. LowHangers

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    Dildos are good to start with and find out if you enjoy something penetrating your ass. As I progressed to thicker and longer dildos, I found anal sex to be very enjoyable, but the real enjoyment of anal sex is when a real cock is penetrating your ass while feeling the heat of friction, the swelling of his cock head as it's going deeper and deeper into your ass and then the moment of his ejaculation when he swells up to release that wonder, warm load of cum inside you. I want him to keep fucking me with all that cum inside me.
     
  17. amb5734

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    I have a dildo that is 7 inch insertable that I just can't take all the way in. I've tried each time to work it, but always wind up taking only 6 inches in. There was a guy that fucked me with his 7 plus inch cock that he was able to bury inside me. It did became so uncomfortable that he flipped me on my stomach and finished off doing me from behind without any real discomfort. Then his much bigger partner took his turn and that was another challenge. But, other than overcoming the width on entry, the prone position worked out fine. Not sure if it was the position allowing them to go deeper or it keeping them from being able to go as deep. Either way we all wound up happy and content. I think using a real cock may be the best way to try and work past the barrier. I 'd love to give those two another go at it.
     
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  18. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    Try one of the longer tapered dildos. I think they work well because they are flexible and thin to get around the sigmoid bend. That is what blocks most people. Eventually with continued trading the bend itself is adjusted and allows the normal penis to get past that point. Don’t rush it as you can cause bad damage.
     
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    Sounds like a good plan.
     
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  20. Gentlye1

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    I've been training my ass with a 9" dildo (King Cock without balls) for about a year. It's nicely curved and shaped, suites perfectly for my anatomy. For couple weeks now I have been able to take it almost to the bottom (>8"). Previously my limit with it was about 7,5". A good lubricant (I like coconut oil) makes miracles with long and smooth anal play, so the bowel can loosen up. Softer and thinner toys I've taken deeper than that, maybe 14".
     

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