Too old to give a shit about inhibitions.

Have you reached a point in your marraige or life where you don't give a shit anymore about and are now litterly open to anythng? What kind of shinnanigans have you been up to?

 

I'm 72 and now, ready to try anything once and if I like it twice... I've always been open to new tricks, but now It's wide open. Wish I could find a few others in my area, that wanted to try to new things.

 

Its a shame that many of our seniors think like we do, but have no way to communicate to others that you are at least curious

 

You have that right. I guess as we get older, things start to thin out and people stay home. Hard to make new friends and especially have the type of friends or buddies you can open up to.

 

I've never had any inhibitions so I don't know what it's like to have them and then getting rid of them. I'm way too old to give a shit or any fuck about what someone has to say about the way I like to have sex but inhibitions? Never had them.

 

Bingo!!!!

 

That’s Exactly where I am right now!

 

I am there now as well, at 61. I was out on my second dinner date with a guy the other day, and even though I'm in the closet to most of the people in my life, I was openly kissing him in the restaurant, something I've never done before. We're now making arrangements to not only get together for sex next weekend, but actually for him to stay the night, my first time ever with a guy. It's time to throw all inhibitions out the window!

 

At a certain point, it's all about you. Damn anyone or anything else. If it's fun..do it. If it's safe...do it. If you can wake up the next morning, feel invigorated worth no shame or concerns about what occurred prior...do it!

 

Just a follow up: we had our night together, starting off in the living room, where he nicely sucked me, and I him. But even then the chemistry wasn't there for me. We headed to the bedroom, where I proceeded to spend hours deepthroating his small cock, with him experiencing over the top pleasure, evidenced by his verbalization. He kept saying thought I had the most skilled tongue he'd ever had. I had to take short breaks, during which he kept going out for a smoke. But at 66, he just wasn't able to cum, even with my Herculean efforts--which was fine: I understood and was okay with that because I had the same problem in a bathhouse last year.

But he never reciprocated. He never even touched my cock again, let alone sucked it--throughout the almost 4 hours of sex in bed. The only thing he did to me was suck my tongue a couple times. But that fit right into his narcissistic conversation style--you know, one of those people who only love to talk about themselves, ad nauseam. Even on our dinner dates, and throughout our night together, I would ask him questions about him and his life, but he never once asked about me or mine. Plus he's one of those gay men who don't do anything anal (he calls himself a side, as opposed to top or bottom, a word coined in some research paper out of England). And I LOVE rimming and fucking a guy's ass.

When he rolled over to fall asleep spooning with me (but keeping part of the sheet covering his ass), I tried myself for over an hour but couldn't fall asleep. I've made it a rule to never hook up with guys who smoke (I've never smoked), but I thought I'd make an exception with him. That was a mistake. I really couldn't stand the smoke smell surrounding him. So I left the bed very carefully not to wake him, and slept on the sofa in the living room. We spent the entire morning continuing our "conversation" over coffee, with many smoke breaks. I know he was waiting for me to offer to make breakfast for us (as I had asked him by text a couple days before what he liked for breakfast). But all I wanted was for him to get out of there, so I never offered. Finally by 11:40am he left. Thank God!

A few days later he texted to get together for lunch again, but I wrote back that I'm a pass, just not able to handle the smoking. He wrote that he was disappointed but understood. I skipped the next weekly get-together of our gay group in our regular pub, but went last week, and we were friendly with each other.

Live and learn.

 

I have wanted to bottom for a long time. I don't smoke, would love to be rimmed and then let a guy have me.

 

Me too, I don't smoke and I'm so ready to take it up the ass but if the guy was kind enough to tongue my bum in the warm up that would be soon nice.