Too nervous to try

I’m a 34 year old guy that is very bi curious. I have been with one guy and sucked him but I was completely drunk. I have always fantasized about being with guys but just can’t seem to work up the courage to actually go through with it. I have talked to one guy and he seems really cool and understanding but no matter what when it comes down to it I chicken out and come up with an excuse to not do it. Any help??

 

You just have to commit yourself, take the plunge and enjoy the experience. I felt similar my first few times but began to enjoy it and before I knew it I couldn't get enough cock. I was around 32 my first time. Having gotten many fantastic blow jobs from a few gay guys over a six month period I was wanting to try sucking one. It was awkward the first couple times, he knew I was a beginner but was encouraging knowing I wanted to become skilled at it. I simply did what I'd seen in porn flicks and what I liked done to myself and it only took me about ten blowjobs to have reached my goal of becoming a deep throat artist and an eager swallower of cum.

 

You have sucked one cock and must have liked it to have fantasies about sucking another one. After sucking my first cock, I felt guilt, shame and several other negative feelings. I also remembered the excitement of sucking a cock, the feeling of his cock in my mouth and the texture on my tongue. And the desire to give back some of the pleasure I had received from other men sucking my cock.

After sucking four or five cocks I finally admitted to myself that I liked sucking cocks. Thirty-plus years and an unknown number of cocks later, I'm a happy cocksucker; glad that I followed up on my fantasy.

Vow to yourself that you are going to suck one more cock just to satisfy your curiosity. Make a date with the man you are talking to. Be sober when you meet. Ignore your nervousness and take his cock in your mouth. Don't worry about technique, just do what would feel good to you.

When you are finished you will know if sucking cocks is just a fantasy or something you like doing. Be warned, a lot of men discover they like sucking cocks.

 

It has to be with someone that you are very comfortable with. You already have broken the ice with a guy, so you should be able to talk about your curiousity. Then Go For It. No hangups if you do or don't like it . You don't know until you try, feeling free about doing it.

 

It takes a little time to get over the nerves, learn to enjoy the exhilaration of unfamiliar territory. It helped me to have repeat meetings with the same guy and have him enjoy what I did for him and what he did for me.

 

Yep, I hooked up with the same guy about 10 times over two months as we both became very comfortable and open with each other. I really honed my skills with him too.

 

For me, the first ti

Getting over the nerves was the hard part for me, that 'now or never' moment. After I went down on him my first thought was 'I can't believe I'm sucking a cock'.

 

Yeah, I'm sure many of us were saying a number of things to ourselves..."Damn, I'm sucking a cock"..."OMG, his cock is in my mouth"..."This is rather enjoyable"!

 

Yours ahead of me. I've never had the opportunity. I can only imagine the heart racing and the mind too.

 

Yes, getting over the nerves or building up the courage to suck my first cock was the biggest obstable. But I had been sucked by a guy and was determined to do it. So I went to a bathhouse with a full conviction i was going to suck my first cock - and i did, in the steam room.
That was my first thought too - I can't believe it, and the second thought was even better. "Wow, I really like this, i like the feel of a dick in my mouth, my lips sliding up and down on his dick" I gave him such a good blow job for my first time that he shot right off in my mouith

 

I remember the first time I suck my friends dick I was so nervous. we both agreed to tell the other when he or I was about to cum and pull out of each other’s mouths and just let the cum go in the floor. After about a dozen or so times I finally got up the nerve to swallow but I didn’t tell him. I was sucking and he was screaming I’m cumming but I just kept right on sucking he shot his load in my mouth and as fast as he was cumming I was swallowing. And after time I eventually savored the treat he gave me. Best of luck to ya we’ve all been there

 

My first time I didnt have time to get nervous. Second time i was scared but reassured by the fact i had done it before.

 

Iv still not tryed it yet.....

 

You didn't say if you only talked to this other guy or you have met him in person. If he understands your intentions to suck him and do what ever, then go ahead and schedule a meeting to get acquainted. Meet somewhere where you can have a private and open conversation about each others intentions and feelings. Go in knowing that it is just going to be a conversation. Then you shouldn't be as nervous. Make sure all your concerns have been addressed and if you feel good about things schedule a followup to do it and don't look back. I did it this way my first time and felt so relieved afterwards. I wondered why I waited so long. Absolutely no guilt even though I was a bit homophobic in my youth.

 

I think the nerves are a issue for most of us in the beginning, I know they were for me ,and still present themselves now that my steady partner of 6 years has moved away, and I find myself searching for cock or for that certain guy nearby for a ongoing situation. I've found A guy fairly close by via a carefully worded post I made on Craiglist ( I miss the old CL) We have been chatting regularly and video chat often, Looks like we will finally get together next week and see how we click. The anticipation is growing but not a nervous one.

 

I have to fully agree with you Bicaptain as my curiosity lead to actually experiencing it and quickly grew into a craving after giving my third blowjob. So many questions going through my head having been raised in a conservative house hold and here I am sucking other guys cocks and enjoying it as much as having sex with my wife. Many times sucking a couple guys off and returning home to have great sex with my wife. Years of questioning myself if I was gay or hetero sexual...sucking a cock and swallowing his load and going home to bury my face in the wife's pussy to see if I stilled enjoyed it...I did, but I questioned myself for years. However, it never stopped me from sucking more cocks. The thrill, excitement, joy of giving was imbedded now so I just went with the flow and enjoyed myself. I'm glad I indulged because it's provided and added so much more pleasure than just staying with pussy. I LOVE BOTH!

 

It's been over a year. What has happened?

 

When I seriously started sucking again (65) I set up 4 different guys over 3 days...was quite the return to blow jobs. Actually loved it very, very much...wish I could do 4 guys regularly now. Just go out and do it, especially while you are young enough to suck many cocks the rest of your life. If I had started with a vengeance when I was 34, I would have sucked thousands by now, a lot of cum to have swallowed

 

Well that guy I was talking with kinda started to creep me out. I was talking to another guy that I was extremely interested in but he disappeared out of nowhere. Still looking for the right guy but seriously going crazy wanting to be with a guy

 

Sorry to hear nothing has worked out yet. It's been that way with me too. Hope something picks up and you start at least meeting guys out, well, after we all can.