I have been smoking cigs off and on for 7 years now, and I have never smoked more than a pack a week in my entire life. Nicotine doesn't have me at it's deaths grip, I could go for 6 months or more without one, I just like them after a good bowl and the cig gets you feelin better by far. Especially menthols, NEWPORTS!!
I just stick to being myself. pay attention to her, and dont go straight for her pants. and just keep in mind you're one of two (or more) people and it isnt all about you. and be confident, the girl either does or doesn't dig you, but it's not really a loss if she doesnt either. whole lot of fish in the sea