I have been masturbating in the prone position since 1995. I didnt know that any other way even existed as I didnt discuss it with anybody else. I have never had sex so I dont know if not quitting this will cause a problem. I had phimosis as well so my doctor suggested a circumcision. I went ahead with it. I was told to abstain from masturbation for a month after the surgery and I did. After that I had a little difficulty masturbating prone but after a few tries I achieved it. Then I abstained again as I had to get my blood tested for something and I didnt want my prolactin to be elevated because of the ejaculation. After the blood test, I tried to masturbate prone and it didnt work. I tried a couple of times in the next few days and it didnt work at all. I was able get a good erection but when I humped the bed I just couldnt keep going as there was no pleasure coming out of it. Also the circumcision makes it very difficult to masturbate prone. So now I am trying to masturbate using my hand/Fleshlight. Its been a couple of days but I have had no ejaculation yet. I try for 1-2min a day before I give up as the stimulation using hand is not pleasurable. Do you guys have any tips on how I can achieve this and how long it took for someone who were in my situation? I am getting married soon and am scared if I will be able to ejaculate during my first intercourse. Also how long should I try on a given day? Failing ejaculation,how long should I abstain from masturbation or watching porn before I try again?