Tips for the ultimate bj please!

Hi there

Basically, I would like some tips and tricks from you guys!

I love going down on my bf and he always says I do a great job, but...

When we first started seeing each other and were still very casual he received oral from another lass who he drunkenly referred to a few weeks later as 'the blow job queen' as she gave him the best he'd ever had! Ouch lol

Now I don't like to blow my own trumpet but I think I'm very good at it, but I want that title lol!

Any help?

 

Take your time, at least for me. I don't really like a high speed expert bajowski. I wanna watch you suck it nice and slow. Don't be afraid of the balls. Actually, when you're licking my balls, that should be the only time you stroke my dick with your hand. When you're sucking it, you need to do just that. Suck it, not suck and jerk. So treat it as a hands free instrument. I also like to hear a chick moan a little so I'll really know she wants to be doing what she's doing.

 

Deep throat.

 

As yoy are doing your thing gently run your finger nails over his balls starting from the back and moving forward.... also gently tugging on his balls will get him going as well.


Never ever suck hard on his balls like you see in porno movies.... that shit hurts like hell and keeps hurting for days.

If he is having a hard time cumming gently rimming his asshole with you finger while sucking should send him over the edge.... it always does for me.

Dont suck and jerk his cock.... only do one or the other..... if you are sucking use your hands elsewhere

 

But I kinda do all that already. He likes a bit of rimming too so I usually start on his cock with my mouth, lick it and spit to get it nice and wet, swirl my tongue around the tip and up and down a few times before moving south lol, concentrating on licking his balls and rimming (he doesn't like his balls sucked) whilst using my hand nice and slow all the while making (genuinely! no faking here) appreciative mmm's then work my way back up to his cock, make eye contact, sweep my hair to one side so he can get a good grip on it with one hand and slowly start working on him. Obviously he likes it deep so I like to take him fully in my mouth then all the way up to the tip again, slow and tight, swirl my tongue around, flick it against the underside til he gets close then he takes control a little bit and gets me moving faster. And of course I always swallow


But what else can I do??!!

I would like to add he never has any trouble coming lol and he gets oral every day

 

Sounds to me like you are doing a fine job and he should appreciate the effort you are putting in! Fucking rude if he is telling you this other girl is the blowjob queen really. Sure hope he is putting in the same efforts in eating you or he does not deserve what he is getting from you. Maybe just mention to him about the pussy eating king you had before and he might work harder on you.

 

Ill take upper and lower teeth for 100 Chuck..

 

hey, if he' still not happy then fuck 'em! stop sucking his dick for about 4 months and after that. he will appreciate it if you just say the words suck and dick in the same breath.

 

Make it messy. Choke, gag, spit - always winners I've found.

 

Chew on it like it's a corn on the cob...Don't be afraid to use your teeth...

 

Lol ^

 

^Thanks...You know it makes sense...

 

What is the official etiquette for removing the holders from the end of the cock?

 

Check, check, check! After 7 months of almost daily BJ's I know what he likes...

Just want something that little bit extra.

Thanks everyone for your tips and tricks but it's all stuff I do already, maybe just need to experiment lol get some toys involved or something ;-)

 

OOh I like that, might just have to try a little nibble when he's next home...

 

If you've got it right I suggest sticking to what you're doing but trying other locations - out and about, in the shower, in the car, on a train.
I've tried it previously with a little cold champagne in my mouth which some guys love and others really hate.
A finger in the arse whilst pulling in the balls often works as does a dribble of hot candle wax down the shaft.

 

Use the saliva from deep in your throat, it's thicker than the stuff from your tongue. Other than that, you sound like you're doing just fine.

 

he loves when I stop sometimes and have a drink of ice cold water then keep some in my mouth and go back down on him, but champagne sounds even better!

 

Thanks again everyone, from what some of you have replied it seems I'm doing it right, I've given him oral in other places, outside late at night on way home from the pub, in the car and the shower too. Just going to chill out, at the end of the day it's me he's dating, not the bj queen so I must be doing something right hey!

 

If you wanna go the extra mile...u could try learning to take his cum while he is in the bottom of your throat....my gf and I watched a porn video , featuring someone named heather Brooke ...after watching her do that little trick, my gf said "I can do that" ....it took her about 6 months to be able to do it....first she had to learn to deepthroat , but it sounds like you already can do that....I gotta say, when she finishes me off like that, it's pretty mind blowing.....just pull up a heather Brooke video and you'll see what I mean...

 

I used to give BJs in the tub. He particularly liked when I sucked on the flat side of his head. I would slurp in and out through my teeth.