My wife and I both enjoy anal sex. Everything from massage and rimming to full intercourse. The only thing I've never been allowed to do its cum in her during anal sex. However, the other day she said she is ready for me to cum in her ass! I find I really only get pleasure from sex when she does, so I want to make sure this goes well. Plus, I want to do it more than once. So, ladies, any tips that will help make this experience more enjoyable for my wife? Guys, anything you have learned that makes this experience better for women? For starters, I'm thinking only having the head of my penis in her when I cum will be a good start. That way my cum isn't buried way down in her!
Why did you only ask the ladies?!! Men can answer that too. My humble advice is to giver her nice deep analingus before and after anal intercourse. Again dont tell me the "go-wash your anus before" non sense. Lick it they way it is.
I prefer it when he is deep in my ass when he cums. That way I can feel the spasms, and I love that. Maybe your wife will like it too.
I asked men what they thought would help. That's why my other question addresses them with the more traditional use of the word "guys". so.. men feel free to gives tips too! Don't worry, I'll lick her as she is. It is always my pleasure to do that! That is good to know she won't feel the spasms unless I am deep in her. She won't feel any if just the head of my penis is in her? I'd like her to feel that, I think she'd like it.
My only concern with cumming deep in her ass is it will make clean up hard for her. Any tips on how to make that clean up easier? Also, do some positions allow a woman to feel the spasming if a penis better than other positions?
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I would say get her really aroused and that way she is heavy into it when you do go into her ass. I prefer him coming deep in and I'm not a man but I'd say once you're going heavy and about to cum you might be more inclined to push in more then focusing on only keeping your head in. Just let it all happen naturally. It's beautiful and hot so just go with the flow while it's happening. Be in tune with her and it will all come together naturally. Clean up? Do it together. Afterwards get in the shower together and make it time to pay a little extra attention to each other. I know I love being bathed and bathing my man so maybe it will make it less of a concern about the clean up. Don't over think it. Let your love guide you
Yep, make sure she or together clean reasonably quickly. Left inside, it (his stuff) deteriorates pretty swiftly and can assume the characteristics of what normally resides there ....... yerk! Other than that, just enjoy it.
Thanks both for the great tips on clean up! It's good to know we need to clean up quickly. I love the idea of cleaning up together in the shower too.
Clean up after internal Anal Sex ejaculation shouldn't be a problem at all. After all, it's not really any different to that of an enema, except that with an enema there is far more fluid than that of an ejaculation, and with an enema, although you are meant to retain it as long as possible before releasing it into the toilet, the ejaculate is microscopic, in proportion, and should easily be possible to hold it until the next bowel movement, by which time it will probably have totally liquified (even if it was thick & creamy when it went in), and been absorbed into the rest of the bodily waste.
Honestly everybody is going to have THEIR opinion on what feels good and what doesn't. You will have to try different stuff with your wife to see what SHE likes. My wife just likes my dick in her ass during orgasm period, so it depends on what we're doing. If we're doing anal, I will cum as deep as I can in her ass. I like the feeling of being buried in her buns when I cum. My wife is a bit of a masochist so she likes it when I cum deep during anal because when I push it in balls deep it's a bit painful for her, and bit of pain gets her orgasm really going plus I love the way she moans when I'm really in her ass. When we have vaginal almost 100% of the time I still cum in her butt. My wife likes me to stick it in her butt when she starts to cum. When I cum in her butt after vaginal I usually cum shallow because I like the feeling of her anal spasms from her orgasm milking my head. She doesn't want me to spit on her ass or warm it up or anything, she said she likes the feeling of her ass being split open during her orgasm. She likes the pain of the initial penetration during orgasm. A little spanking or hair pulling also makes her cum hard.
