Well, I'm having a sex partner with whom i use to have sex often. Im not American and still dont know american culture very well. But i would like to try new things like tie him up, i dont know if i need to introduce it before or ask him right before I do it. I would also like to sit on his face while he is tied up I know he is a freaks lol but I wonder if I need to ask him before to sit or do it... Hope u can help
Don't make any surprises. Being tied up can be very fun, when both people are into it. Just be sure he is in to it. Communication so important with your sex life. Maybe he is into it or willing to try it for you, you never know. Just talk about it with him.
Make it a sexy surprise, but don't whip out a bunch of ropes and chains or anything. Do a sexy strip dance for him, then give him a lap dance wearing only your bra and panties. After a few minutes, take your bra off and use it to lightly tie his hands together. Continue to tease him for a while then maybe give him a little head. You can then slide your panties off and either use them as a blindfold for him, or get right to business and hop on top. I'm giving away my super secret moves here. Don't let it go to waste. He'll stop you if he doesn't like it, but trust me, he won't stop you.